7/24/08

5 Steps To Get Your Girlfriend Or Wife Back

By Nancy Pitot

Right after a breakup or marriage problems, many men are anxious to find out what they need to do to get their girl back. There are many sources of information they can use and some even have videos to help with the process.

The following steps cover the basics of a proven action plan.

Why the sudden change? Is it really sudden or has it been building over time? Has either of you experienced a life changing event recently? Is money at the heart of the problems?

What has happened in your life which would make you less attractive to her? Think long, hard, and deep to discover what she would like you to change or modify. Is money or the lack of money an issue?

Is it necessary to get a third party involved? Sometimes pastors or social counseling agencies are required to reconcile outstanding issues? Would she willing to participate? Is the third party willing to contact her directly?

All good things come to an end, and at some point you need to start looking for a new partner. Try to find someone outside of your mutual friends. Make it a point to stay in touch and occasionally meet your ex for coffee or lunch at one of your favorite old hang outs.

What did you guys do together that she really enjoyed? If you get a chance to repeat that activity, call her up and invite her out for an evening. Keep everything low key and just enjoy yourselves as in the past.

The Magic of Making Up site expands on these ideas with free videos. There are many ideas which your can pick up by just watching them. Just remember that you are not the first person who is going through this tough time, and you should use these resources to sole any marriage problems and get your girl back.

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