If you think about it, if you meet the person you will spend the rest of your life with before 30 years of age. You most likely will live with them twice as long as you lived at home with your parents.
It would be unrealistic to think that you will spend so much time with someone else and never have some conflict from time to time. Unfortunately one of you may decide to leave the relationship because of this occasional conflict.
How do you save a relationship that is headed for failure?
The first thing you have to do is recognize why you're fighting. Are you fighting because you're truly mad at each other, or are you fighting because you're upset that some jerk at your office accused you of something you didn't do?
You are together on a daily basis, sometimes we don't realize how we take our daily frustrations out on our loved one. We take for granted they will understand.
This taking them for granted can led to a lot of problems. If you had a bad day you should let your mate know.
Remember to stay calm when you're talking to your mate they will be more receptive to what you are saying verses you screaming at them.
Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that no two people will always agree. Sometimes it's best to agree to disagree.
Remember to show your mate that you love them in little ways. Leave notes where they will find them. Buy a Cd of your favorite songs. Do something simple like pick up their favorite candy bar. Just to let them you thought about them.
If you don't let your relationship get stale you won't have to ask, how do I save this relationship? However, There are lots of things you can do to refresh your relationship. A few such examples are on this free video,
It would be unrealistic to think that you will spend so much time with someone else and never have some conflict from time to time. Unfortunately one of you may decide to leave the relationship because of this occasional conflict.
How do you save a relationship that is headed for failure?
The first thing you have to do is recognize why you're fighting. Are you fighting because you're truly mad at each other, or are you fighting because you're upset that some jerk at your office accused you of something you didn't do?
You are together on a daily basis, sometimes we don't realize how we take our daily frustrations out on our loved one. We take for granted they will understand.
This taking them for granted can led to a lot of problems. If you had a bad day you should let your mate know.
Remember to stay calm when you're talking to your mate they will be more receptive to what you are saying verses you screaming at them.
Sometimes you just have to accept the fact that no two people will always agree. Sometimes it's best to agree to disagree.
Remember to show your mate that you love them in little ways. Leave notes where they will find them. Buy a Cd of your favorite songs. Do something simple like pick up their favorite candy bar. Just to let them you thought about them.
If you don't let your relationship get stale you won't have to ask, how do I save this relationship? However, There are lots of things you can do to refresh your relationship. A few such examples are on this free video,
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