3/28/11

Find Out How To Save Marriage

By Areelitaha Joahlanski


Is your marriage heading into trouble? Have you and your spouse been constantly fighting, ignoring each other, or seem to have fallen into a boring and loveless rut? There is still hope, but you have to want to learn how to save marriage. It is solely up to you.

A healthy marriage is one that is rich in communication. Being open and honest with your partner about things will help end the misunderstandings that lead to arguments. Make sure you talk to each other. Tell your partner how you feel about certain things that happen, what goes on in your daily life, and anything at all that is bothering you. They don't know everything unless you tell them, so a good line of calm communication can put a halt to some of those fights.

At times, when a problem does come up, or issues are starting to compound, they can easily lead your marriage down the wrong road if not addressed. Sit down with your spouse, lay out whatever is bothering you, and talk about it. Be calm, honest, and patient. Try to work it out together. Don't let the problem keep tearing your marriage apart.

Have you spent any quality time together recently? Having fun together and taking the time out for each other is critical to a healthy marriage. Get closer to your spouse by spending an evening playing games together, having a day at the beach, or even a walk in the park. Make the time for your spouse and you will notice a great improvement in your relationship.

Many marriage problems come from a lack of affection and romance. Both spouses need love and physical contact. Romance your loved one! Cuddle up on the couch together for a movie one night each week. Give them surprise gifts and let them know you love them. Spend the time to seduce each other in the bedroom instead of just loveless intercourse. Maybe you could even just try new things in bed, such as a different position.

When was your last vacation? You and your partner's daily stresses can take a toll on you and your relationship. Get away from it all with your spouse. Ride horses on the beach, go on an African safari, or visit a historic town you'd both like. It doesn't really matter where you go or what you do, as long as it is together. Just taking the time to decompress with your loved one can revive some affectionate feelings for them.

Learning how to save marriage can seem daunting at first, but it's the little things that count. Spending time together and talking to each other are key factors in a healthy marriage. Beyond that, just relax and be with your mate. Every marriage has bumps, and now you know ways to improve those rough times.




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