3/3/11

Tips To Reveal Lies

By Michael L. Welch


If there is one thing people have been doing since the dawn of time, it is lying. Lying has become a part of our everyday conversation that most of us have spoken nothing but lies. There are also others who try to tell the truth but they are disregarded. People are much more interesting if they lie which ultimately becomes a downfall to your reputation. Lying makes you a distrustful person and on the receiving end, you will never be able to trust that person again. Identifying lies from the truth can be a difficult situation but there are hints on how you can tell.

There are a lot of reasons as to why people lie. It can be that they want to get out of a sticky situation or they want to get ahead. Either way, it is much better to learn the painful truth rather than smile unknowingly that you have just been lied to.

Know how he talks normally. You can always tell when this person is talking to you in a normal conversation and when he is suddenly uptight about his words. If he begins to speak with double meaning there might be chances that he is hiding something.

It is very difficult to spot a liar especially if you are talking to an expert liar. He can look at you in the eye and tell you lies and would not flinch about it as long as he is able to get what he wants. Observe tell tale signs of anxiety as the body is surely giving out signs of distress when someone is lying.

Lies have different meaning to everybody. Some tell a outright lie while others try to bend the details to compensate for the truth while others only tell some parts and leave out some of the more interesting details. Concealing the truth is still called lying. And you can easily notice when someone tells you half of the truth when he begins to detach himself from the conversation once he tells you the lie.

Although this technique can vary from different scenarios, asking and quoting can be the key to smoking out liars. Liars are usually offended and taken back when someone tries to ask for details since they do not want to be put into such stressful situation again.

Trust your instincts. There is something about your instincts that will tell you that someone you are talking to is lying. It is our body's way of protecting ourselves from harm so trust your body when it tells you to stop.

As they always say, telling the truth is hard and spreading lies is much easier but the repercussions you will suffer will be a lot harder.




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