I've told many of guys that they need to do this in order to make their marriages fantastic. When I do, most get this blank look in their eyes, like they're wondering what in the world I'm talking about. And frankly, most don't. They're clueless. What they don't know is that it takes very little to make a woman feel special, and the benefits to the relationship are so wonderful that most men can't believe it is so simple.
So what can you do? Here are four things - simple, easy, subtle yet powerful. We know they'll work.
1. When you go somewhere, it doesn't matter if you are on a date or you are driving to the supermarket, treat her like a gentleman would treat a lady. That means that you open doors for her, at the house, car, or the store. When she goes to sit down, at the kitchen table, or in a restaurant, help her with her chair. When you walk down the street, you walk on the traffic side.
2. Periodically, for no reason whatsoever, bring her a gift. It doesn't have to be expensive, it can be simple. Make sure the gift is something that she wants, not something that you want. If you don't know what she wants, find out.
3. Compliment her. Find something about the way she looks, how she's dressed or something that she does that you really like. Tell her how much you admire that particular thing.
4. Listen to her. Men - hear me on this one - this is very, very important. Listening to her means that when you talk to her you look her in the eye. You hear what she is really saying - not the words necessarily - the emotion behind the words.
Simple? Yes and no. Every man on the brink of divorce may have heard those things before. He knew he needed to be doing them - but he didn't. If you want to save your marriage, start with these four things. If you want to know how to use them in a way that will change your marriage in a matter of weeks, go see our site. People have used our material and saved their marriages for over 37 years.
So what can you do? Here are four things - simple, easy, subtle yet powerful. We know they'll work.
1. When you go somewhere, it doesn't matter if you are on a date or you are driving to the supermarket, treat her like a gentleman would treat a lady. That means that you open doors for her, at the house, car, or the store. When she goes to sit down, at the kitchen table, or in a restaurant, help her with her chair. When you walk down the street, you walk on the traffic side.
2. Periodically, for no reason whatsoever, bring her a gift. It doesn't have to be expensive, it can be simple. Make sure the gift is something that she wants, not something that you want. If you don't know what she wants, find out.
3. Compliment her. Find something about the way she looks, how she's dressed or something that she does that you really like. Tell her how much you admire that particular thing.
4. Listen to her. Men - hear me on this one - this is very, very important. Listening to her means that when you talk to her you look her in the eye. You hear what she is really saying - not the words necessarily - the emotion behind the words.
Simple? Yes and no. Every man on the brink of divorce may have heard those things before. He knew he needed to be doing them - but he didn't. If you want to save your marriage, start with these four things. If you want to know how to use them in a way that will change your marriage in a matter of weeks, go see our site. People have used our material and saved their marriages for over 37 years.
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