6/24/11

Marriage: Save It

By Chan Wetklow


Infidelity is one of the worst things that could break a relationship as deep as marriage. Extramarital affairs are the worst betrayal of all that is about in a marriage.

Having a physical relationship with another person outside of the marriage context is not just infidelity. It is an emotional issue when one of the partners opens life with somebody outside marriage.

This is also known as emotional infidelity and has been growing popular in the last few years. It is because of the workplaces becoming increasingly mixed. Texting, instant messaging and email has made it easier to bond with those who we should not bond with. Even if it is not considered as the cause of emotional infidelity, it is still one of the factors.

At the same moment, physical infidelity has also become a lot easier to do. It is now not uncommon for us to spend time apart which gives us a very handy excuse to make a decision to cheat in our marriage.

Always remember that infidelity is always a choice. But then it also doesn't mean that you cannot fight against cheating in your marriage. Infidelity is a huge problem but it is not a problem that has no solution. The first thing you need to check is find out what's wrong in your relationship.

Infidelity is a thing that just happens. There is always a reason why it happened in a marriage. Something happened in your marriage that has been broken and needs to be fixed.

Never blame the person for what happened. Yes, they have cheated on you. No, it was not because of something you did. But you really need to move past it because blaming will only delay your healing. You need to try your best and put it all away.

Reestablish trust once you are working out the reason why it all happened.

Trust is easily ruined by infidelity and it is not an easy thing to repair. You both need top work your best in rebuilding the trust. Never expect it to be back quickly and do not expect rebuilding trust is an easy thing.

Infidelity is a terrible thing but all relationships can be rebuilt. All you need to do is be open and receive good advices and help in order to fix your marriage.




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