7/20/11

Common Signs of Infidelity In Spouses

By Terry Agina Perry


When it comes to knowing how to catch a cheating spouse, signs of infidelity are paramount. If you suspect your spouse of cheating, you have to know what to look for to know. Suspicions are not good enough here. On that note, however, statistics show that of all the men who think that their partner is having an affair, half of them are correct. With women, the percentage jumps up to 85 percent.

Both men and women are unfaithful to their spouses. When the perfect opportunity presents itself to an unhappy spouse, they will often take it. Affairs often start from the gym, carpooling, or other areas where a person is away from their partner. Be careful, however. Just because your partner participates in one of these things, it does not mean they are having an affair. Instead, this situation along with other signs may indicate that an affair is being had.

If your spouse is suddenly spending time away from the house when he or she never has before, that can be a warning sign. Your husband might start taking a lot of fishing trips, even though he never expressed an interest before. Your wife might begin going away with her girlfriends a lot, even though she never wanted to prior to this point. These are places where it is hard to contact the person visiting.

Sudden secrecy should be a warning point as well. If they spend all of their time on the computer when you aren't around or if they won't let you see what they are doing, you should be wary. Phone calls that they walk into another room for can be a major way to indicate that something wrong is going on.

Extra charges can be a major indicator as well. If there are purchases on credit cards that your spouse can't explain, this can be a major clue that something is going on. This is often a better way to catch someone than having a scent of someone else's cologne or perfume on your spouse's clothes.

Just hints and signs are not as good as facts to confront your spouse. While doing all this may be very painful on you, in the end it all pays up and everything works out. You will always thank yourself that you took the lead and found out thing early. So you can have a better life soon, so watch out for the signs of infidelity.




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