8/6/11

The Secrets to a Happy Marriage

By Samantha Kate


It is usual to think that getting marriage is the end game. In fact, many people think that tying a knot through formal papers can secure the relationship to last forever. However, they need more than those notions to maintain the marriage. Without consistent happiness fueled by understanding and commitment, a marriage can just end up under the drain along with other relationships that has been lead into the hurtful trauma of divorce.

But marriage does not have to end. There are ways in order to preserve the bliss in the bon, thus, assuring that each couple takes in the right amount of juice to carry on forward. Here are two of the ways on how to go about it.

Share Domestic Chores. This one is very apparent. Sometimes, gender stereotypes get in the way of a relationship. Instead of doing the dishes, for example, the man assumes that it is the woman's work to do household chores like that. And this can extend to as easy as putting the used clothes on the right area or even sweeping the floor. Thus, couples should take force upon themselves to discuss the sharing of tasks, no matter how out of character it is for one to do. That's the advantage of cooperation.

Maintain the Passion. To be able to make sure that both couples still have that passion for each other, they must go on dates as frequent as possible and touch each other whenever they can. Even if they think that being together all the time, with kids and other family members around, can compensate for those alone time, they can't take away the fact that having a moment to share, where they can express the same fervor as they had when they weren't married, is something to look forward to. Keeping the jolt of emotion, tickling the arousal moments, can keep them enticed with each other, even if they already have children.

With the simple efforts cited, marriage can keep being hurt and pain free, and can extend the bliss without a need for struggles.




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