Are you getting more and more frustrated with your ex and feel like you're dealing with a 3 year old? Find out what you can do to turn the tables and make him repentant as a toddler. See how you can get him back quickly and easily.
Do you wish that you could just slap your ex and make him see sense? Doesn't he see the huge mistake he's making breaking up with you? Maybe another woman stole him or maybe you could have screwed up a bit. But not bad enough to get you dumped! He will see this one day, but now, he sees no sense.
In the meantime though, your heart is breaking and you wish you could just snap him out of this stuff. You wish that you could talk some sense into him. You wish that he would just change his mind and show up at your door saying that he made a mistake. But every day he only grows more distant and more angry with you as you try to fix things or make things better between the two of you.
Is He Stubborn? - Just remember that most men are pretty stubborn when it comes to... well, anything! But especially after a breakup a guy will usually really dig his heels in and refuse to listen to reason. It doesn't matter how many times you apologize or how many solutions you come up with for whatever his major complaint was after your breakup. He is just being stubborn.
Now, while his stubbornness might drive you crazy right now there is another way to look at it. He is dedicated to his convictions and that is something that you can appreciate. It is a matter of using that male stubbornness and his inherent maleness to get him back. It is a matter of knowing how guys think and figuring out what you can do to get him to react the way that you want.
One way to think about all of this is to think of your ex as if he was actually a child. Has he been acting like some of the spoiled children you see out with their parents at the store who throw a tantrum and kick and scream when they don't get their own way? Maybe you should treat him as if he was a spoiled little boy and do what smart parents do and instead of giving in to all his demands or letting him get his way, you simply walk away and leave him on the floor pitching a fit like a baby.
Your ex is no different than a little boy. Right now he is throwing a fit and acting irrationally. The best thing that you can do until he calms down and gets his wits about him is to try to ignore his childish behavior and continue on with your life. Ignoring the behavior often removes the power and once your ex realizes that he doesn't have any power in the relationship he will begin to calm down.
All of this might sound just a little too simple to actually help you to get your ex back, and you would be right. This is just an example but the theory is still the same. Your ex is similar to a little boy but not exactly the same. He has the same ego and the same male hormones as the little boy but there are other aspects of his personality that might be a little more advanced. The overall scheme though is to take control of the relationship back so you can fix things and get him back in the shortest amount of time possible.
Once you understand how men and little boys work it is rather easy to manipulate and control a situation, whether it be a little boy at a grocery store or your ex being unreasonable and stubborn about getting back together. The same emotions that he felt when the two of you first fell in love are still there. It is up to you to bring those emotions to the surface and take control of your relationship before it's too late. You might feel like quitting at times and you might feel that enough is enough but with some understanding and careful planning it is absolutely possible to get your ex back both quickly and easily.
Do you wish that you could just slap your ex and make him see sense? Doesn't he see the huge mistake he's making breaking up with you? Maybe another woman stole him or maybe you could have screwed up a bit. But not bad enough to get you dumped! He will see this one day, but now, he sees no sense.
In the meantime though, your heart is breaking and you wish you could just snap him out of this stuff. You wish that you could talk some sense into him. You wish that he would just change his mind and show up at your door saying that he made a mistake. But every day he only grows more distant and more angry with you as you try to fix things or make things better between the two of you.
Is He Stubborn? - Just remember that most men are pretty stubborn when it comes to... well, anything! But especially after a breakup a guy will usually really dig his heels in and refuse to listen to reason. It doesn't matter how many times you apologize or how many solutions you come up with for whatever his major complaint was after your breakup. He is just being stubborn.
Now, while his stubbornness might drive you crazy right now there is another way to look at it. He is dedicated to his convictions and that is something that you can appreciate. It is a matter of using that male stubbornness and his inherent maleness to get him back. It is a matter of knowing how guys think and figuring out what you can do to get him to react the way that you want.
One way to think about all of this is to think of your ex as if he was actually a child. Has he been acting like some of the spoiled children you see out with their parents at the store who throw a tantrum and kick and scream when they don't get their own way? Maybe you should treat him as if he was a spoiled little boy and do what smart parents do and instead of giving in to all his demands or letting him get his way, you simply walk away and leave him on the floor pitching a fit like a baby.
Your ex is no different than a little boy. Right now he is throwing a fit and acting irrationally. The best thing that you can do until he calms down and gets his wits about him is to try to ignore his childish behavior and continue on with your life. Ignoring the behavior often removes the power and once your ex realizes that he doesn't have any power in the relationship he will begin to calm down.
All of this might sound just a little too simple to actually help you to get your ex back, and you would be right. This is just an example but the theory is still the same. Your ex is similar to a little boy but not exactly the same. He has the same ego and the same male hormones as the little boy but there are other aspects of his personality that might be a little more advanced. The overall scheme though is to take control of the relationship back so you can fix things and get him back in the shortest amount of time possible.
Once you understand how men and little boys work it is rather easy to manipulate and control a situation, whether it be a little boy at a grocery store or your ex being unreasonable and stubborn about getting back together. The same emotions that he felt when the two of you first fell in love are still there. It is up to you to bring those emotions to the surface and take control of your relationship before it's too late. You might feel like quitting at times and you might feel that enough is enough but with some understanding and careful planning it is absolutely possible to get your ex back both quickly and easily.
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Using male psychology to get him back really is one of the simplest ways to get your ex back. While it may be difficult for you to use these psychological tricks, it can be very easy to accomplish once you understand what works on the male mind.
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