So you and your ex have been broken up for some time. Maybe the two of you got so angry you decided never to speak to each other again. Perhaps you're applying the No Contact Rule. Either way, you came up with the conclusion that your ex is still important and that you want them back. In this article, I'll tell you how to get an ex back after months of not talking to each other.
There are basically three stages to this plan and although this plan isn't perfect (no plan is), it will give you the best chances out of all the others.
How to Get an Ex Back after Months by Reviving Contact
Contacting them again is the first step you need to do. The best way to approach this is by contacting them using a very good excuse.
This could be anything you want. You can try calling them up and telling them that you found a new French restaurant and since your ex loves French cooking so much, you thought about informing them about it. This should make it easier for the two of you to communicate with each other. This should lead to the second phase of the program.
How to Get an Ex Back after Months by Going out with Them Again
Catch up with your ex by asking them out for coffee. Considering how long since you last saw each other, there's a good chance that your ex is happy to catch up with you. Meet each other and spend about an hour just talking. Don't try too hard or get overexcited. Treat the situation as if the two of you are friends who saw each other after a long time. If the date goes well then see each other casually over a period of weeks. You should go slow this time and not rush towards the relationship. However, you might want to inquire about getting back together if everything looks well after several months.
How to Get an Ex Back after Months by Making it Last
The final phase is making sure that the relationship is strong enough to last this time. Some changes would have to be made to avoid past mistakes if you want this relationship to last for a long time. Talk to your partner and consider all the changes needed in order to make this second-chance work for you. In most cases, knowing that your partner is committed in making this work is enough to make the relationship stronger.
There are basically three stages to this plan and although this plan isn't perfect (no plan is), it will give you the best chances out of all the others.
How to Get an Ex Back after Months by Reviving Contact
Contacting them again is the first step you need to do. The best way to approach this is by contacting them using a very good excuse.
This could be anything you want. You can try calling them up and telling them that you found a new French restaurant and since your ex loves French cooking so much, you thought about informing them about it. This should make it easier for the two of you to communicate with each other. This should lead to the second phase of the program.
How to Get an Ex Back after Months by Going out with Them Again
Catch up with your ex by asking them out for coffee. Considering how long since you last saw each other, there's a good chance that your ex is happy to catch up with you. Meet each other and spend about an hour just talking. Don't try too hard or get overexcited. Treat the situation as if the two of you are friends who saw each other after a long time. If the date goes well then see each other casually over a period of weeks. You should go slow this time and not rush towards the relationship. However, you might want to inquire about getting back together if everything looks well after several months.
How to Get an Ex Back after Months by Making it Last
The final phase is making sure that the relationship is strong enough to last this time. Some changes would have to be made to avoid past mistakes if you want this relationship to last for a long time. Talk to your partner and consider all the changes needed in order to make this second-chance work for you. In most cases, knowing that your partner is committed in making this work is enough to make the relationship stronger.
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