A perfect relationship is built full or tranquility. Tranquility in a sense that both of you have a peaceful life together free of fights and misunderstanding. However, sometimes a relationship is not always perfect. Most of the times concerns and issues occur. Misunderstandings create fights that make your relationship shatter.
Although, fights are natural, they can be very stressful if done in higher dozes. However, fighting can be a good thing if done in smaller dozes. In fact, they can be a tool in order to have a wonderful relationship ahead. Here are some things you should remember while in a fight with your partner.
Smoke creates fire but fire creates damage. Fights should never happen all the time. Instead, it should be just like smoke creates little fires ahead. It should never become a major fire which could damage a lot of things. Take for instance, if you fight about not being on time during date, make sure that you talk it over right away. Do not make a big deal about things that should not be a big deal. Find ways to hand down your cards and his cards and come up with a resolution.
Fire doesn't stop with more fire but with water. If you are both in a fight and in a misunderstanding, being negative and angry is a big mistake. Never barge into things in a manner that you create more fights and not lessen the situation. Instead, be calm while dealing with the situation. Take for instance, if he gets angry because of your character, just listen to him and do not fight back. Instead, be calm and wait for the perfect moment for you to tell him that he is wrong. Never return the anger with anger.
Fights may be negative most of the time but it can also be positive if dealt well. In fact, when you are in a fight, make sure that you talk it over right away. As much as possible, you should be able to ask each other why you fought and how you should deal with it so as not to have the same issue again.
Although, fights are natural, they can be very stressful if done in higher dozes. However, fighting can be a good thing if done in smaller dozes. In fact, they can be a tool in order to have a wonderful relationship ahead. Here are some things you should remember while in a fight with your partner.
Smoke creates fire but fire creates damage. Fights should never happen all the time. Instead, it should be just like smoke creates little fires ahead. It should never become a major fire which could damage a lot of things. Take for instance, if you fight about not being on time during date, make sure that you talk it over right away. Do not make a big deal about things that should not be a big deal. Find ways to hand down your cards and his cards and come up with a resolution.
Fire doesn't stop with more fire but with water. If you are both in a fight and in a misunderstanding, being negative and angry is a big mistake. Never barge into things in a manner that you create more fights and not lessen the situation. Instead, be calm while dealing with the situation. Take for instance, if he gets angry because of your character, just listen to him and do not fight back. Instead, be calm and wait for the perfect moment for you to tell him that he is wrong. Never return the anger with anger.
Fights may be negative most of the time but it can also be positive if dealt well. In fact, when you are in a fight, make sure that you talk it over right away. As much as possible, you should be able to ask each other why you fought and how you should deal with it so as not to have the same issue again.
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