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How to Get Her Phone Number

By Chris Miller


The regular way of asking out a woman is to meet her someplace and exchange contact information. Once you know the way, you can always get the phone numbers of ladies you meet.

Men treat a woman's phone number like it's the holy grail that they must obtain by the end of the evening. You should give a girl a good reason to provide you with her number. You have to make a girl comfy enough to provide you with her number. If she doesn't want to give you her number, you cannot do anything about it. She should volunteer the information.

Here are some suggestions if you're looking for ways to make a girl provide you with her number.

Step 1: Make a Good First Impression

The main reason why you would pick a book from a shelf at the bookstore is because the cover was attention-grabbing. When it comes to dating, you should be able to make a good impression on a girl you are asking out. A woman decides whether you're worth chatting with or not too quickly. Girls who are hit on by men often will tend to do this. When you get your chance to strike up a conversation with her, make sure you are on you are a game.

Step 2: Get Her Full Attention

If you know what you're doing grabbing a girl's attention will come easy. If, for example, all you can think about is the weather, you can be certain she will be bored to death. Remember, a girl must make the decision to have a chat with you before the conversation even happens. Have a list of openers ready if you have no idea how to grab a girl's full interest.

When a woman is bored with the discussion you're having, her focus slips further. She may look around in search of her acquaintances, or she could swap glances with other guys around. The point is, if you're boring, she will not willingly provide you with her number when you ask. In fact, she may decide she is done with the chat even before you can ask.

Step 3: Get Her Talking Fast

One method to keep a woman in a conversation is to get her talking about herself. Every question must pose an out of the ordinary topic to talk about. You know about leading questions right? These are the kinds of questions you need to ask. A question is a very good one if it gets her talking and explaining her answer.

Useful conversation topics include why she's in that particular bar. You can also say something ambiguous to get her curious. Questions that can be answered by a yes or a no are not good for making conversation unless she is already hooked into the talk in the first place.

Accomplish all these and you can make sure that she will give you her real phone number by the end of the night.




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