You believe your partner is having extramarital affair with someone else, but there is just no proof to justify that - and you don't know how to find that proof.
How do you find out exactly what he is doing behind your back...and with who is he doing it?
Before we go on there is one point to remember, the woman he may be cheating with has the role of the third party - and she is not necessarily better than you in any way. He is just using her as an 'escape' to the problem he is having in your marriage - HIS problem.
However, I must admit it is not up to anyone else to decide what you really need to know of this extramarital affair. So if this is for your peace of mind, go on and find out.
1. The Other Woman
This is the first clue you want to find out. In fact, once you have a good idea on who the third party he is having his extramarital affair with, it is easier to guess on where and when the affair actually take place.
Ok, how would you find out?
You can put down few names that he has mentioned recently (especially female names). There will only be a few - and no doubt he has mentioned these names in conversation before. At the start of the affair, he wouldn't have covered it up in any way - as normally affair is unplanned.
Normally the person he has an affair with has something in common with him - at least enough to entice his 'excitement' brain. This will make him blurt out her name subconsciously anyhow.
Tips: It is good if you are calm and act 'dumb' - so that he doesn't know you are suspecting anything. This will definitely make him make more mistakes such as saying her name even more times than he should - bring her into conversations even more.
3. What is it they're doing
Beside the actual extramarital affair intimacy, there must be something else that both he and this other woman have in common. Normally this is something that YOU don't have in common with your spouse - and it becomes the affair's connection.
Example of the activities can be sport, skateboarding, skiing, the gym etc.
3. Where is it?
Knowing him for a while you should have a fair idea on what he enjoys doing - without you. With this in mind you can also guess where those activities take place e.g. fishing in the lake and so on. Don't forget, the physical things would also happen somewhere and the safest place sometimes is your own house or area.
Places around his workplace can also be good for meeting during lunch time and after work.
4. When they are doing it?
There is no easy answer for this, meeting his other woman around your area sounds crazy too.
Well, just as you know him, he also knows your schedule. If he normally is oblivious and doesn't really care about what you do, now he would. He also has a good idea on which ones of your plan you would carry out.
An example to this is you go to Yoga or Pilates every Tuesday night, and that's exactly when he will meet his other woman. If you visit your parents' place every other weekend - and you hardly miss it, he would also use that time.
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Having this information will hopefully help you in catching a cheating spouse. Check out cheating-spouse-alert.com to get even more information on how to catch cheating spouse - red handed hopefully. By: Sally Webb.
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