The issue at hand is not just a matter of getting your ex to return. The issue has to begin with why did they leave in the first place. Look inside yourself and examine what role you played,in your partner leaving you.
We are emotional creatures. We enjoy being around people who make us feel good when we are around them. Simple things like paying a person a compliment makes them feel good. Laughing at the corny jokes you heard them say before, believe it or not makes them feel good. Those jokes may be corny and repetitive to you, but they can be fresh and funny for someone else.
Secondly,the reality is we all can be replaced. How would you feel if you were treated like you were replaceable? Everyone needs to feel needed. You have to be a keeper. You need to be the person that they have to have in their life. Look around for something they do for themselves and do it better for them.This causes a person to rely on you. It causes a mutual need. It forms a bonded relationship.
Thirdly, too often we take our mate for granted. Don't you like to feel special? When you first met, didn't you receive special treatment. Were not your little whims catered to? Didn't you feel special because of this treatment? So did your partner. You cant stop treating your partner as though they are special because there are too many others willing to treat them anyway they desire.
Remember when you were a child. Do you remember that uncle or aunt that gave you those little gifts. It could be something very small, but they always had something. How would you feel if they showed up empty handed. Disappointed, I'm sure. Do you show up making your mate feel disappointed about what you have to offer? Or are you still handing handfuls of disappointments?
After you determine what you did wrong, on your part you need a plan to get your ex back. You need to know what to say or not say so that you can get in there and repair some damage. Suppose they won't even answer your phone call. If you want to get your ex back, it is possible, you may need some guidance. You should watch this video, to help you plan the steps needed to get your ex to return. The video reveals three things that guarantee your lover will return even if they haven't left physically yet.
We are emotional creatures. We enjoy being around people who make us feel good when we are around them. Simple things like paying a person a compliment makes them feel good. Laughing at the corny jokes you heard them say before, believe it or not makes them feel good. Those jokes may be corny and repetitive to you, but they can be fresh and funny for someone else.
Secondly,the reality is we all can be replaced. How would you feel if you were treated like you were replaceable? Everyone needs to feel needed. You have to be a keeper. You need to be the person that they have to have in their life. Look around for something they do for themselves and do it better for them.This causes a person to rely on you. It causes a mutual need. It forms a bonded relationship.
Thirdly, too often we take our mate for granted. Don't you like to feel special? When you first met, didn't you receive special treatment. Were not your little whims catered to? Didn't you feel special because of this treatment? So did your partner. You cant stop treating your partner as though they are special because there are too many others willing to treat them anyway they desire.
Remember when you were a child. Do you remember that uncle or aunt that gave you those little gifts. It could be something very small, but they always had something. How would you feel if they showed up empty handed. Disappointed, I'm sure. Do you show up making your mate feel disappointed about what you have to offer? Or are you still handing handfuls of disappointments?
After you determine what you did wrong, on your part you need a plan to get your ex back. You need to know what to say or not say so that you can get in there and repair some damage. Suppose they won't even answer your phone call. If you want to get your ex back, it is possible, you may need some guidance. You should watch this video, to help you plan the steps needed to get your ex to return. The video reveals three things that guarantee your lover will return even if they haven't left physically yet.
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