Your first kiss at the start of a new relationship is often a very anxious time. It can be very awkward, especially for those who haven't dated in a while.
While some of this anxiety is unjustified, how you go about kissing her is very important. That very first kiss forms a first impression of you as a sexual entity to your date.
How you go about initiating the kiss is as significant as the actual kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, that a woman can intuitively sense.
Know that the first kiss is very important and is not merely something to get out of the way. Listed here are 3 tips about doing it the right way.
1.) Do not try to get her permission by asking her.
You can't just grab her and start kissing because you're feeling aroused. Instead you must gauge when the moment is right. If there is sexual tension between both of you and she is showing signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.
To ask for permission at this moment, lessens the romantic impact of that first kiss. This can make you seem weak. Many women want to be swept off their feet by a strong confident man who takes charge. Take charge of the moment.
2.) Become familiar with the signs of attraction.
Do you find that she is touching you in casual ways during conversation? Maybe she might find excuses for holding on to you such as when she is walking on slippery snow and uses you for support. She may have brushed her arm or hand up against yours.
Eye contact is equally important. Have you caught her making quick glances at you? Are you getting prolonged eye contact while conversing?
Do her eyes seem to take in the different parts of your face? If her eyes stare intently at your lips, she definitely finds you arousing. Does she lean in closely to you a lot?
Is she somewhat nervous in your presence? This is a good sign. She may even play with her hair when talking with you. Dilated pupils are also a very good sign.
3.) Start your kiss slowly, as if in slow motion.
Hold her hand, look into her eyes and then at her lips and mouth. If you sense no resistance then kiss her. Try caressing her hair or cupping her face in your hands before kissing.
While some of this anxiety is unjustified, how you go about kissing her is very important. That very first kiss forms a first impression of you as a sexual entity to your date.
How you go about initiating the kiss is as significant as the actual kiss itself. There are many complex inputs and cues, that a woman can intuitively sense.
Know that the first kiss is very important and is not merely something to get out of the way. Listed here are 3 tips about doing it the right way.
1.) Do not try to get her permission by asking her.
You can't just grab her and start kissing because you're feeling aroused. Instead you must gauge when the moment is right. If there is sexual tension between both of you and she is showing signs of attraction for you, then seize the moment and kiss her.
To ask for permission at this moment, lessens the romantic impact of that first kiss. This can make you seem weak. Many women want to be swept off their feet by a strong confident man who takes charge. Take charge of the moment.
2.) Become familiar with the signs of attraction.
Do you find that she is touching you in casual ways during conversation? Maybe she might find excuses for holding on to you such as when she is walking on slippery snow and uses you for support. She may have brushed her arm or hand up against yours.
Eye contact is equally important. Have you caught her making quick glances at you? Are you getting prolonged eye contact while conversing?
Do her eyes seem to take in the different parts of your face? If her eyes stare intently at your lips, she definitely finds you arousing. Does she lean in closely to you a lot?
Is she somewhat nervous in your presence? This is a good sign. She may even play with her hair when talking with you. Dilated pupils are also a very good sign.
3.) Start your kiss slowly, as if in slow motion.
Hold her hand, look into her eyes and then at her lips and mouth. If you sense no resistance then kiss her. Try caressing her hair or cupping her face in your hands before kissing.
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