2/11/11

How To Resolve Conflicts To Save Friendship

By Yuri Roscoe


When a friendship is broken, it is sometimes very hard to fix knowing that you have hurt the person you trust the most. The deeper the friendship has become the harder it becomes to solidify it back again. Here are some ways for you to reconciliate with your friend.

Apologies are meant to rekindle your friendship. Make use of the word sorry to your friend and solidify your status as true friends. Admit that you have hurt the emotions of your friend and you are willing to make friends with him again.

Take the time to have your friend over and speak to him about your worries as to why you had a fight with him. There are surely reasons why both of you were in a dire position of mistrust. Speak your side of the story and clarify the other part to him.

Be respectful to your friend and give him a chance to talk to you to let you know his side of the story. There are always two side of the coin and do try to listen to him as he tells you what happened to your friendship in his own point of view. Once he is done, then you can tell yours.

As you have already known that your friendship was put to a test all because of miscommunication, therefore learning how to think first before talking should be your top priority. To avoid further conflict between the two of you, you can always think ahead and see what are the consequences for saying this or that.

Start small. When both of you have regained each others' trust, start small by getting along with each for coffee and not the immediate house party that you have always done. There are things that are still up in the air that need to be considered.

Time heals all wounds no matter how small or big they might be. All time make the healing and leave it all be in the past. The best way to recover from a fallout with your friend is to take things slowly and let it all pass with time.

The guide above will surely help you regain your friend back to your warm embraces. Make sure that you follow the steps and have utmost sincerity when you approach your friend.




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