2/11/11

Having Fun Going To Social Gatherings

By Mary R. Cordes


Some of us want to be the life of the party while others tend to be just a drifter that comes and goes at parties. But what if you are not one of them, what if you are the person who never gets invited to these parties? You begin to wonder what is with you that just won't click with others? Here are some ways to boost your social life.

Take your worries away and leave them at the front door. When you step inside a party, keep in mind that you are there to have a good time. If you exude that feeling of having a good time then people will instantly notice you and begin to talk to you.

Although you might consider yourself as the life of the party but the true life of the party is the camera. A party becomes alive when flashes of lights appear and you get to capture moments that you will treasure together with your new found friends.

Right before you head down to the party make sure that you have all your problems solved and nothing is wearing you down. If you keep on thinking about your problems it will show and people will notice it and stay away from you.

Enjoy a friendly game with other people from the party. Make sure that the games you play are both competitive and fun and people are ready to do it even with their party dress on. The more fun the games the more you shine throughout the party.

Once in a while, listen to what other people want to say. There will always come a time when you will have to shut your mouth and be the ear that listens to what others are talking about. With that, you respect others and they will begin to respect you.

Make friends online. The internet is the best place to make new friends and gather them together. Social networking sites like Facebook and Twitter are the best breeding ground for new friends.

Or, you can always earn a new friend the classic way which is to buy someone a drink and get to know that person well. Then you can go ahead and join other people's table with their permission and enjoy the night.




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