It is never easy to go through all the miseries and pain brought forth by a break-up. The hardest thing to fathom is, is it really over? Or when is over really over?
Relationships may or may not survive. A lot of these ends for many different reasons. But one thing certain, for the party who does not want the relationship to end, the feelings are the same: hurt, desperation, panic, emptiness, a knot in the stomach, and any other emotions that a person does not want to feel.
Who's to Blame?
Once a relationship comes to its end, the way of telling that it is really over is by the person who walks away first. Whoever puts an end to the relationship can determine when enough is enough. Take for instance the following situations. Each is clearly differentiated by the intention and type of walker or the person who said goodbye.
If your ex walked out from your relationship because he or she was fed up with a particular behavior or attitude that you already discussed several times before, it means that your partner sincerely loves and cares for you but the time has come when things are just too much for the person to handle.
Well, your ex's purpose is to make you aware that it's about time you change your ways. If you are ready to listen and give in to what is asked from you, then in no time, you will have your ex back.
A Clue that It's the End of the Road
On the contrary, if your partner ignores all efforts and ideas to try saving the relationship, looks as if he or she is eager to stay away from you, does not like to attend counseling classes, despise books or any material that helps in strengthening and building healthy relationships, or in short, is not interested to settle whatever the issue is within the relationship but rather, he or she wants nothing but out; hence, it entails that your relationship is coming to its end and the likelihood of getting back together is dim.
Such is a clear indication that the person has other plans with his or her life. He or she may even found something or someone else to get busy with. The point is, it is indeed over if your partner is showing such agitation. The best thing you can do is let go.
Just like a song, relationship ends. It only depends on the parties involved whether they put a comma or a period at the end of their relationship. But if you share similar predicament with the second situation, then the best thing for you to do is to say, "it is really over and move on.
Relationships may or may not survive. A lot of these ends for many different reasons. But one thing certain, for the party who does not want the relationship to end, the feelings are the same: hurt, desperation, panic, emptiness, a knot in the stomach, and any other emotions that a person does not want to feel.
Who's to Blame?
Once a relationship comes to its end, the way of telling that it is really over is by the person who walks away first. Whoever puts an end to the relationship can determine when enough is enough. Take for instance the following situations. Each is clearly differentiated by the intention and type of walker or the person who said goodbye.
If your ex walked out from your relationship because he or she was fed up with a particular behavior or attitude that you already discussed several times before, it means that your partner sincerely loves and cares for you but the time has come when things are just too much for the person to handle.
Well, your ex's purpose is to make you aware that it's about time you change your ways. If you are ready to listen and give in to what is asked from you, then in no time, you will have your ex back.
A Clue that It's the End of the Road
On the contrary, if your partner ignores all efforts and ideas to try saving the relationship, looks as if he or she is eager to stay away from you, does not like to attend counseling classes, despise books or any material that helps in strengthening and building healthy relationships, or in short, is not interested to settle whatever the issue is within the relationship but rather, he or she wants nothing but out; hence, it entails that your relationship is coming to its end and the likelihood of getting back together is dim.
Such is a clear indication that the person has other plans with his or her life. He or she may even found something or someone else to get busy with. The point is, it is indeed over if your partner is showing such agitation. The best thing you can do is let go.
Just like a song, relationship ends. It only depends on the parties involved whether they put a comma or a period at the end of their relationship. But if you share similar predicament with the second situation, then the best thing for you to do is to say, "it is really over and move on.
About the Author:
Devastated over your breakup? Daniel D. Dalton is a relationship expert dealing with breakup and broken relationships. Visit Win-Your-Ex.com for advice about getting your ex back and help you answer should I call my ex?
