3/27/12

When Major Misunderstanding Pass your way

By Alex Shant


Little fights are normal in a relationship. In fact, some experts say it is important to have minute fights so that the both of you can release small amounts of tensions and negativity. Aside from that, it is also vital because only then in fighting can you see the true character of your partner. In other words, once you resolve the fight, both of you will now be ready to face any challenges that come your way.

The only problem is when the fights and misunderstandings become more consistent and major. This happens when petty fights turn into the major issues that cause problems in the relationship. Instead of talking it over like true adults, all you do is sleep under the dark cloud above your head hoping that during the next day, things would be different and that things may go as smooth as they are supposed to. Instead, petty issues turn into major misunderstandings that are not easy to mend.

When this happens to two people, they usually end up separating because of too many emotional bruises. However, some couples are very hopeful that they could still mend the peacefulness in the relationship. What they would usually do is to settle things is the lighter shade by talking things over with each other. Laying down issues that have not been handled over yet and discussing possible solutions to the problems are two ways of fixing the relationship.

Another thing that you could do is to rekindle back the romance in the relationship. Setting a day for a date is one way to rekindle the romance that was lost because of too much tension. Set a date that would make you laugh all the time.

Sharing a good laugh with your partner is a good way to remind each other that even if you may have some difficulties and issues that came in the past, you can still bring back that flame by making funny jokes.




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Why Do Men Cheat? Let's Look At The Reasons...

By Slanikan Kolahata


Here's a question that can never seem to get answered correctly, why do men cheat? No man can say that they have never cheated on a significant other at one point and time. Men go through women like they go through socks. If one is not doing what they expect, they cheat on her with one that will. Not the correct approach to take, but many do.

The old saying men will be men, has been turned into an all around cheater slogan. A real man is not a man that cheats on his women because he wants another. A real man is someone who is willing to work out his relationship problems in hopes of saving what he already has waiting for him at home.

Another easy excuse is that you never know when you are married so you have to get all you can, while you can. Newsflash, if she isn't giving you everything you want, you shouldn't be with her in the first place. Don't disrespect her, break it off and let her move on to someone that will actually appreciate what she has to offer.

Boredom is another common excuse, but you would have to ask them if they have ever bothered to talk about it with their companion. It is only natural that the initial passion wears down a little bit, but you have every opportunity to liven it back up. It's a two way street and you can't blame boredom solely on the woman. Take a look in the mirror before you go chasing after someone else.

Why do men behave this way and why do men cheat? Its how they are and nothing can change it. Why do men cheat? Probably because they can help it and just want to move on. In some cases the real reason cannot be determined. In young men, they just want to get naughty, finally its their choice what they do with their life. Some choose to have fun and others choose the easy way out. Its basic law, nobody wants to be alone.




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