5/2/12

How to Alter Him from a Unromantic To A Giver

By Alex Shant


There are two kinds of men; one that gives a lot of gifts and the other is the one that rarely gives. Women on the other hand, are receivers by nature. We were made to wait for blessings from our male partners. Even most female animals have that characteristic. In effect, women like men who give by nature. In addition, gift giving and being romantic is very important in a relationship. Men and women should not take this simple ways in showing each other love for granted. What happens, then, when you like a guy that rarely gives? Will you compromise holidays and special occasions without gifts and surprises just because you like him

The fact is, you don't have to compromise special days without those heartwarming gifts. All you need to do is to change him into a guy that gives during these days. Change your man from a rare giver to a romantic. This way, the two of you will have a wonderful relationship ahead. The question is, how do you change him? Here are simple ways you can do to detonate those romantic juices of your man.

Start giving gifts to him. The best way to make someone do the things you want them to do is to do it yourself first. Start giving during special occasions like Valentine's Day, Christmas day, and new year's day and give one token every month. When he notices, he will start giving. He may start giving every month for the sake of reciprocating. However, sooner or later he will give you special gifts because of how mindful you are.

Tell him your favorite items. Men sometimes do not give because they do not know what to get for their girlfriends. Tell him what you like to collect. Show him you like accessories or perfumes. This way, he won't have a hard time figuring out what to get for you.

Lastly, tell say thank you at all times. When you say thank you or you say you love the things he gave you, he will be ignited to give more. Men love appreciation. It is their nature.




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Cat Behaviour: Why They Do That

By Owen Jones


Cats are so commonplace that we scarcely look at what they do and why they do it, but cat behaviour is quite an interesting topic really, particularly for cat owners and animal lovers.

Cat behaviour is normally taken to refer to that of household cats, although they do share some characteristics with their larger wild relatives.

A cat's behaviour for the most part depends on whether it is a lone cat or one of a number in a household. Cats are normally solitary animals just coming together to mate, although they will usually co-exist with other cats in a house, especially if they met while they were young or those that were introduced were kittens.

You might be problems of territorialism if you attempt to introduce an older cat into a house, where another cat has been living for a while. This is similar to large cats, which have their hunting ground that they patrol and delineate with urine and faeces each day. Tom cats sometimes do this at home, much to the annoyance of their owners.

Rubbing has a comparable meaning. A cat rubs with scent glands on its face to mark something as its own, particularly territory, which is all cats actually care about except food.

Kneading or knitting is another common mannerism in household cats, although it is not actually well understood.

One theory goes that domestic cats remain juveniles, never really growing up, so kneading is reminiscent of kneading its mother's teats to stimulate the flow milk. Others say that it is reminiscent of flattening grass to create a bed, but this does not seem to explain the rapture that cats appear to derive from kneading.

We like to hear our cats purr because we see it as a sign of happiness, but is it? Well, it almost certainly is, but it almost certainly comes from the fact that cats are born sightless and, like most babies, fairly stupid, so the sound of mum purring almost certainly attracts the kittens to her for a feed. The 'memory' of this glad event almost certainly triggers purring in adult cats.

When a cat arches its back, it is probably telling its aggressor that it is bigger than they think it is. It is also an attack stance. With its back arched, a cat can rear up in order to scratch a taller opponent, but it can also jump or run, whichever action is appropriate. The hissing goes with arching to deter the antagonist.

Cats do not have a wide vocal range and, being nocturnal hunters, they have developed a great deal of 'eye language'. For instance, if a cat is pleased, it's eyes dilate - a bit like when we look at their loved ones.

However, it also occurs in cats while they are hunting, which might mean either that they enjoy that activity or that they have to get as much light as possible to see by.




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Computer Dating For Single Dads

By Owen Jones


It doesn't matter about your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are literally thousands of women out there who are eager to meet you and eager for your company - it doesn't matter whether it's short-term or long-term relationships that you want. If you have found yourself suddenly on-the-market again after a relationship has dissolved or you are just too busy with your work to spend much time looking for a friend to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an Internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc.

You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don't recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you are not satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you'and do so promptly not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don't want to appear that desperate.

Don't give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many of whom, will want to meet you.




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Scheduling Tips For People Who Are Going To Marry Soon

By Brain Edemann


Planning your own wedding is certainly rewarding, but it can also drive you crazy. You can always get a wedding planner to help you out, but there's nothing like planning your special day to a T, all on your own. It's adventurous, not to mention the fact that you'll save some good money in the process. This allows you to preserve your budget or spend some additional money on things that make the party truly better.

If you do decide to do this on your own, here are some guidelines to keep in mind that should lead to the best and most effectively planned wedding possible.

1. Make a specific checklist.

It's always handy to keep things organized when planning your wedding. With a checklist, you can easily see if you've missed out on something. This also helps you save on unnecessary expenses that people tend to overlook.

2. Come up with a contact list that makes it easy for you to access the details of anyone you may need to speak to.

Beginning with your tailor to the contact person for the venue, you should always have the contact details of the people involved in this event. Share this list with your partner so that both of you can help each other follow up on things that need to be taken care of.

3. Make a list of all the guests you plan to invite.

Having this list will help you estimate how many people to expect at the event. This will also help you out when coming up with a budget for the event.

4. Prepare a budget.

Make a list of projected expenses for everything you may need for the event. But anticipate unexpected expenses as well.

5. Come up with a well-prepared program for the reception.

The reception isn't just there to feed your guests. Be creative by preparing program to keep everyone entertained during the event. Make the event truly memorable for, your partner, and your guests.




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