5/2/12

How to Alter Him from a Unromantic To A Giver

By Alex Shant


There are two kinds of men; one that gives a lot of gifts and the other is the one that rarely gives. Women on the other hand, are receivers by nature. We were made to wait for blessings from our male partners. Even most female animals have that characteristic. In effect, women like men who give by nature. In addition, gift giving and being romantic is very important in a relationship. Men and women should not take this simple ways in showing each other love for granted. What happens, then, when you like a guy that rarely gives? Will you compromise holidays and special occasions without gifts and surprises just because you like him

The fact is, you don't have to compromise special days without those heartwarming gifts. All you need to do is to change him into a guy that gives during these days. Change your man from a rare giver to a romantic. This way, the two of you will have a wonderful relationship ahead. The question is, how do you change him? Here are simple ways you can do to detonate those romantic juices of your man.

Start giving gifts to him. The best way to make someone do the things you want them to do is to do it yourself first. Start giving during special occasions like Valentine's Day, Christmas day, and new year's day and give one token every month. When he notices, he will start giving. He may start giving every month for the sake of reciprocating. However, sooner or later he will give you special gifts because of how mindful you are.

Tell him your favorite items. Men sometimes do not give because they do not know what to get for their girlfriends. Tell him what you like to collect. Show him you like accessories or perfumes. This way, he won't have a hard time figuring out what to get for you.

Lastly, tell say thank you at all times. When you say thank you or you say you love the things he gave you, he will be ignited to give more. Men love appreciation. It is their nature.




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