Almost every guy I know at some point in their life has asked this question. How to have confidence to talk to a woman? As a woman, I thought that every guy has the confidence and the capability of talking to women out of the blue; it's in their human nature right, but it's not. In reality men are more insecure than women.
Let us get straight to the point here: women absolutely love men who can confidently come up to them and start a conversation. It isn't about the words you use or the proper pick up lines that will work, it's simply about confidence. You see, women are people that need to be impressed, and in order to compliment this need, they seek for a guy who has a strong enough personality that can definitely bring himself easily around people. Once they see that a man is confident enough, the chances of having a conversation with a woman is high.
Second is practice, practice and more practice. Yes, practice, like the saying goes, practice makes perfect. Practice by talking to your mother or sister or your women neighbor until you get comfortable in communicating to women. Try to be aware of your words and listen and look on how they respond. Every scenario and circumstances are different. So try to absorb information on what women like, what words make them put up a smile and what makes them tick off. They are like your trial and error partner.
Get rid of those insecurities, no matter what they are. Usually, it is about personal appearance, or lack of intelligence, but whatever they are, always remember that identifying them is one step, but it is just half the battle. Do something about these insecurities and do not let them hinder you from mustering enough confidence. if you know that this girl is attracted to the smart guy in class, then simply be the smartest guy in class. Use this insecurity as a motivation for you. I tell you what, once you overcome this insecurity, you will surprisingly find that you will feel more confident about yourself. It will lead you to feeling good and then you will find yourself talking with confidence.
As the title says, it all starts with confidence. Like perfume, a woman can easily smell if a guy is confident or not. Having a confident man that isn't insecure enough to talk about his weaknesses but does not boast about anything that he has makes any woman in this planet automatically interested to anything that the guy has to say. To sum it all, just think of any woman as a close friend. You can never go wrong with that thought.
Let us get straight to the point here: women absolutely love men who can confidently come up to them and start a conversation. It isn't about the words you use or the proper pick up lines that will work, it's simply about confidence. You see, women are people that need to be impressed, and in order to compliment this need, they seek for a guy who has a strong enough personality that can definitely bring himself easily around people. Once they see that a man is confident enough, the chances of having a conversation with a woman is high.
Second is practice, practice and more practice. Yes, practice, like the saying goes, practice makes perfect. Practice by talking to your mother or sister or your women neighbor until you get comfortable in communicating to women. Try to be aware of your words and listen and look on how they respond. Every scenario and circumstances are different. So try to absorb information on what women like, what words make them put up a smile and what makes them tick off. They are like your trial and error partner.
Get rid of those insecurities, no matter what they are. Usually, it is about personal appearance, or lack of intelligence, but whatever they are, always remember that identifying them is one step, but it is just half the battle. Do something about these insecurities and do not let them hinder you from mustering enough confidence. if you know that this girl is attracted to the smart guy in class, then simply be the smartest guy in class. Use this insecurity as a motivation for you. I tell you what, once you overcome this insecurity, you will surprisingly find that you will feel more confident about yourself. It will lead you to feeling good and then you will find yourself talking with confidence.
As the title says, it all starts with confidence. Like perfume, a woman can easily smell if a guy is confident or not. Having a confident man that isn't insecure enough to talk about his weaknesses but does not boast about anything that he has makes any woman in this planet automatically interested to anything that the guy has to say. To sum it all, just think of any woman as a close friend. You can never go wrong with that thought.
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