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The Advantages and Disadvantages of a Best friend Turning Into Lovers

By Alex Shant


Best friends are the type of person you can share anything with. You can share your emotions, your feelings, your happiness and your sadness with him. You can even share personal matters and issues that you are even too embarrassed to shared to your family.

In other words, your best friend is the extension of your family and your family can even regard that person as your brother. They do not see any malice if you sleep together. They do not see anything wrong if you and your best friend spend more time together rather than with them.

However, what happens if your best friend turns into your love interest. This usually happens because of your emotionally attachment due to spending so much time together and exchanging thoughts and feelings as you share experiences and views in life. Well, the relationship can bloom once you start looking at your best friend as you cross beyond the platonic interface. But there are also disadvantages that might break your relationships more than mold it into something above the level of companion. Below are some of the pros and cons.

Pros
Dating your best friend means that you do not have to go back to zero and share your life again to another person. He knows you well enough to be aware of what you like and what you don't like. You do not have to tell him that you want this kind of food when you go to a restaurant or that you like flowers during special occasions. In fact, since he knows you well enough, he will be able to do the things that please you easily.

Cons
Dating your best friend means that you will take the risk of losing him when you break up. If you break up, possibilities are you will lose not only your love interest but your friendship as well. In effect, you will lose the only person that listens to you and knows you by heart besides your family. You will lose a companion more extreme that a boy friend.

Nevertheless, even if the cons are quite alarming, dating your best friend is still a good idea. What is important is that you may have a chance in being with a person that truly loves you in both a platonic and romantic way and that is a very wise thing. Something that other people could not have.




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Be back with your one true love

By Alex Shant


If you want to get back with an ex, it is possible. Even if your ex was your long distance love, the battle is easy. This is easier especially if the reason for your break up was because of the distance. Here are things you should do in order to get him back again.

Make a classic letter. Spilling out how you feel is always a classic. Men like to hear what women think of them for the past years even if they do not show it. Making a letter for him will make him realize how special he is after all these years.

Ask for forgiveness. Say sorry about the times when you falter because of the distance. Saying sorry will make his heart melt. Being honest about how you felt at that time will increase your chances of getting him back. This way, he will feel that you were just immature before and you are willing to be mature this time around.

Ask for a date. Try to ask him for a vacation at some pool or beach when you see each other again. This will make him excited in seeing you. It is better if you could research first about a cool place to have a vacation or a date before telling him so that you can show him a picture. When you start scheduling dates together, try to be close to him by thinking of a good conversation. Once you start having a conversation, romance will initiate after your reminisce your times together.

However, remember to be confident at all times. Men are very attractive to confident women especially when they are of age. Be confident by asking him certain things that you both may know. The local news or your profession will be a good conversation material for you and would definitely show how confident you are with your craft.




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A Day At Cooling Castle Barn With Wedding Car Hire.

By Gavin Burnham


Cooling Castle Barn is probably Kent's most popular wedding venue and with good reason. Superb service from very professional staff compliments the stunning grounds and the huge and wonderful space within the Tithe barn itself. There are three barns for hire: The Heritage Barn for the reception of guests, The Fathom Barn for the Marriage Ceremony and The Tithe Barn for the Wedding Breakfast.

Construction for Cooling Castle took place between 1380 and 1385. John Cobham built the structure at the marsh edge to protect the Thames River. The Thames, however, now flows two miles from the ruins of the building, where Jools Holland, a musician, lives in a private residence. Visitors will still admire the lush garden and the twin drum tower gatehouse, which are kept in good condition. Both of these attractive features serve as backdrops for many photographs, particularly wedding photographs.

Couples may locate their wedding ceremony in one of two different locations. The wedding may take place in the Fathom or may take place outdoors, depending on conditions and on the wishes of the couple. Additionally, a Toastmaster works for the facility to ensure that couples have a well-run and pleasant day. The Toastmaster worries about the logistics so that couples can focus on enjoying one of the most important days of their lives.

Cars 4 Weddings provides wedding car hire service that arrives at the towers. The car drives to the reception at the barn, where the driver is greeted by the Toastmaster so that plans for the day can be arranged. Then, the driver waits until the marriage service has ended before taking couples on a short countryside tour, serving champagne according to the couple's request. When the vehicle returns to the castle, the wedding photographer awaits the couple and snaps photographs of both the car and the towers of the castle in the background.

Meanwhile your guests will be gathering expectantly in the barn gardens waiting for your arrival in your wedding cars. Once the photographs are complete, they will chauffeur you into the barn gardens, driving onto the lawn and circling around to arrive greeted by your cheering assembled guests. They will wait for guests to take photographs and for the photographer to take any further pictures.




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Ways To Catch A Cheating Spouse

By Sydmelboun Perbane


If you believe that your spouse is cheating then you need to have proof before making an accusation and the following are some foolproof ways to catch cheating spouse. Ultimately we all hope that our accusations are wrong but cheating happens enough that you should be concerned. Read on the find the ways to catch a cheating spouse.

The most frequent excuse used is that your spouse is working late. Unfortunately this excuse is also the easiest to check. You can begin to check up on them but you need to be subtle and make sure that they don't realize you are watching them.

Get in contact with the cell phone company and find out your spouses calling history. Your spouse may delete the history from their phone, but there is always ways to bulldoze through your spouses lies and discover the truth.

Internet cheating is becoming a lot more common these days as well. If you suspect your spouse is cheating on the internet, invest in some tracking software that will tell you every click your spouse makes.

Many find this investigation as an invasion of privacy. While others treat the investigation with the utmost care, remember you are doing these things for a purpose. Do not put yourself through the turmoil of not knowing if your spouse is being true to you or not. Technology is a great and ever growing industry, utilize it to help yourself. Just be wary, that these are only some ways to catch a cheating spouse.




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