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Is He Cheating On Your Face, Become Aware! Signs Of A Cheating Husband

By Weeyiu Blakyiepie


Did your husband come home last night? Did he phone you from somewhere and make up some excuse about why he couldn't make it?

One of my friends actually caught her husband in the act right in their own home! She was home early and getting undressed. While she was taking her right earring out, she dropped it and it rolled under the bed. She crawled under there to get it and while she was under the bed, her husband came in with another woman! She was devastated but clearly saw that her husband was being unfaithful.

My best friend came home early one day and when she was taking her earring off, it fell and rolled under the bed. While she was under there trying to retrieve it, her husband came in with another woman! That was the first sign she had that her husband was cheating on her with another woman! She was devastated.

Maybe the dynamic between you and your husband has changed. Perhaps he used to leave you little love notes before going to work and call you in the middle of the day just to hear your voice. While this relationship won't stay this way forever, what happens if you try something like this now? Is he pleasantly surprised or does he get angry and defensive?

Does your straying husband show you a lot less attention than he used to? You can remember the days when he used to leave you little notes when he went to work and would phone you in the middle of the day for no reason just to talk to you and hear your voice. OK, you can't have that sort of relationship forever of course. But now, if you phone him at the office, instead of being pleasantly surprised, does he get all defensive and suspicious and you end up having a blazing row instead?

Along with the signs of a cheating husband, you can also sometimes spot the signs of the other woman. When he comes home, you can smell her perfume, or just a different aroma around him. You can see a little trace of lipstick on his neck or on his collar. Some psychologists claim that this is because either subconsciously, he wants to get caught and have it all out in the open, or she is leaving little tell-tale clues around so that you can catch him out and she can have him to herself.




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Cure Your Approach Anxiety

By Chris Miller


The biggest obstacle to the approach is the sensation of being overwhelmed. The anxiety can show in your actions and your expressions. The pressure comes from the thought of walking over and thinking of awesome things to say to her. Besides this, you also feel that the girl will simply reject you anyway. When she responds negatively, the nervousness deepens.

The expression for this powerlessness to approach girls is approach anxiety. Healing this is hard because you are bound to feel this every time you approach ladies. Even the experienced players still feel this around ladies, believe it or not. You cannot eliminate approach anxiety completely, but you can find out how to cope even though you still feel anxious when approaching girls.

Listed here are some suggestions.

1. Open Body Language

When you're in a club, you see so many people around. When you get there, it is likely that you do not know anyone so you sit around doing nothing. Do not spend too much time drinking alone and circulate around the bar as soon as you can. In a crowded bar, people are expected to mingle. Meeting new people is the problem, and you must not back away from it.

Ladies are looking at you. Your actions are being observed. Drinking alone and not talking to anyone would give the impression that you're creepy. They'd think you're all set on getting drunk alone and you do not want to mingle. You can begin meeting women by being sociable. Ensure that you look amicable and people will be more receptive to you.

2. Eye Contact

It's easy enough to make eye contact with a girl. The hard part is knowing what to do after you make eye contact. There are diverse kinds of looks: the reactive one and the passive one. A passive look is when you accidentally make eye contact with somebody. This means you're not really planning on speaking with that person and your gaze goes somewhere else. A responsive look is when you deliberately take a look at a woman to send your message via your eyes. Unless a girl is too stoned to notice, she will reply with a look back or she will disregard you deliberately. You may employ eye contact as a lure to catch the attention of the girl.

Eye contact will also give you a chance to evaluate the other person's self confidence. It's possible to feel flustered after being stared at in a telling way. If you observe that she's more shy than you thought, you may feel less tense about approaching her. It's more likely that many ladies are more easily disconcerted when the man is confident.

3. Smile

Eye contact intensity is positive for many reasons. The feeling can be daunting. Smiling just before you break the eye contact can lessen the intensity of your stare. A smile can be the best non-verbal manifestation of your purpose to get to know her better. A charming smile when combined with eye contact can be your best weapon in seduction. You're infusing heaps of emotion in your gaze just by smiling.




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How To Get A Woman Excited About You

By Chris Miller


The most important part of attraction is building curiosity. Interest brings about so many other things, like attention, intrigue and curiosity. A girl can simply ignore you if interest is not present. Before you are able to do everything you want with a woman, you should build interest. Remember that you're no more than strangers to each other. Women regard you as one of many many guys attempting to hit on them. This mentality can make women feel powerful. They can discard you and go for other men. But if she's interested, the power shifts in your favor.

How can you start a relationship, if you're the only one with these feelings of liking? It's not going to happen. Fortunately, there are some simple hints to building interest. Here are some of the effective ways.

1. Social Proofing

A boring product that you just would not look at would seem like a popular item if a beautiful woman were using it. Dating uses social proof in the same way. If your target sees you hanging out and having fun with interesting people, you will become interesting. After all, you have to be special in your own way if so many people like you. If you know how to use social proof, you can become better at seducing girls.

Take it from Entourage, where the uninteresting man begins to look distinguished because he's associated with a handsome guy. It's what we call the halo effect. It's the endorsement of the people you hang with that matters. How can you make this work for you? Whenever you're in a social situation, talk to beautiful ladies. Be sure to join a lively group conversation.

2. Banter

In the beginning, things are going well, but the tables could flip if your conversation is boring. The worst thing you'll be able to do is to ramble on and on about yourself. You're not desperate to impress her. Do it like TV hosts do, and treat your woman as your guest. The more she talks, the more she thinks the chat is fun. Of course, you've got to take the lead and segue in the direction you want.

You also can talk about leisure activities to give you an inspiration where she would wish to go on a date. Don't disclose everything about you in one go. She has to discover some parts of your persona on her own.

3. Date

Take the girl out. If she agrees, don't assume that you're dating already. The initial date is the extension of your first meeting. You're continuing the connection in another setting. This is a crucial date because you'll be able to get her more fascinated with dating you for the long term.




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Marriage Counseling That Works And Saves Families

By Suhpua Bazz


It's important for couples to find marriage counseling that works and saves families. Far too many families and up in a horrible situation that leads to divorce. There are a slew of reasons why this occurs. However, finding a therapist can make all that turn around and help the couple find love and communication once again.

In many cases, couples simply lose interest in each other and move further and further apart. More often than not, it is responsibilities and routines that get them to this point. Sometimes, people go for weeks without talking to each other seriously. Instead, they prefer to enjoy movies, television shows, news, or other things that distract them from being together.

In other words, little things that bother someone can turn into huge things. Then, it's just a matter of the time bomb exploding. Very often, when couples are interviewed the entire breakup usually happens for the smallest and most insignificant thing. But beneath that insignificant thing lies a very serious problem. Usually, it's a lack of communication.

For the couple to find a solution, it's often a lost cause. That's when they need professional help that comes with counseling. Not only do they help with the matter that caused the problems, they also take it further and deeper.

Like this, they can uncover the deepest problems. A marriage can somehow be compared to a plant. Very often, when the plant is dying, it is usually due to its roots that are suffering. The same is true in this scenario.

It is the ones that are deep within the skin that are difficult to unleash. However, if they are not unleashed, and use surface problems will arise. Each time, the condition of the marriage will be worsened to the point of no return. Counseling that works can save a couple by using various exercises. For instance, it may be advised for the couple to look through old pictures, old videos and the like. During these happy times, the memories can resurface and make the couple want to try again.




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Branding Is "So Yesterday"

By Joe Manausa, MBA


Branding is a marketing priority that has seen its time come and go, and now only serves as a menu item for marketing firms to sell to their clients. Countless billions of dollars are wasted each year "building the brand," when these resources could be better spent focusing on engaging with more consumers.

Contrary to the headline of this post, I think it is fabulous to have a strong brand, but establishing a staff meeting to talk about brand, or worse, adding a line-item in the company books for branding is a virus that will spoil your resources. It robs you of time, money, energy and focus, all of which could be better used to pursue more sales for the organization (which is the intent of building a brand).

Branding is used to develop a reputation with consumers that serves to make your organization and products more prominent, and most often is an ambiguous expense which companies maintain because the leaders are scared to change the way things have always been done. Branding is the impetus of many funny commercials and the witty marketing spots that we see during the Super Bowl each year, but branding only serves to make the leaders of the organization proud of their "15 minutes of fame." Branding has launched many marketing firms reputations, but the money thrown at this dated strategic concept would be far better utilized in an online engagement campaign.

Imagine an organization which traditionally spends several million dollars each year for branding. What would happen if they would invest that same amount of money into hiring a small team of copywriters to work in conjunction with the entire staff of the organization to produce literally thousands of pages of informative online content? If this information centered around the answers to consumer questions, wouldn't this company gain strong traffic to the company website and immediately start to build a reputation among the prospective customers of the company?

Of course, there would be no humorous commercials on television or giant billboards or even silly banner ads on the internet to make the marketing companies look relevant, but the benefits to the bottom line and the enhancement of the company reputation would be rewarding. This company could begin building a perpetual marketing program by producing content that would be visited for years to come, the proverbial gift that keeps on giving.

Once the company has developed superior content, the game of engagement begins. Without excellent content, the company website has little to offer a consumer who is only beginning the process of "buying" whatever the company sells. It is this critical content that stimulates the bevy of questions from the consumer (engagement) and also serves as the gravitational pull to customers that brings them to your company.




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