2/19/11

The Aching Feeling Of Being Dumped By Your Woman

By Kimberly G. Bradfield


If your girlfriend has ever broken up with you, you know what a terribly painful state of affairs it can be. Of course, all breakups are very emotional and painful but to have things end when they seem to be going strong and steady on the outside just makes the pain ten times worse.

The breakup might have been a spur of the moment thing on your ex's part. Then again, maybe there were a whole lot of clues that you just did not see and you should have expected this.

There is very little you can do right now to get back with you girlfriend, even if you love her and really want things to go back to the way they were. 


Have some self-respect and do not put on the desperate act for her. Give her space and do not contact her, rather than trying to reason with her and begging with her to take you back. It will just drive her away further.

Difficult though it may sound, leave her alone for at least two to three weeks if you so desperately want her back. You will be giving her a chance to get on with her life, without any contact with you, and this will eventually let all the good memories come back and the bad memories fade.

Then when you contact her again for the first time after the breakup, this positive state is what you will get.

During this waiting period, try to change yourself for the better so that you can make the best possible impression when you meet her again. With luck, mutual friends will have told her how much you have changed so that she already that you are trying to be a better person.

But most importantly, try to find out why she broke up with you in the first place so you can try to change that part of yourself.




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Custom Gift Ideas For A Male

By Alan K. Shehan


Showing up with a little surprise gift for your boyfriend seems like a really good idea if you want to show him a little of your love, gratitude or simply for the simple reason that you feel like giving him a present.

The choice of gifts is very vast, so, regardless of what the occasion is you can present him with something amazing. However, it is essential that you mind some important factors before going gift hunting in the glitzy world of shopping.

One of the most imperative of facts is to keep in mind what he likes and what kind of a person he is. If you get him something remembering his likes and dislikes, or keeping in mind something he might have said you will make him very happy. Get to know these facts about him and then buy him something.

Do not hesitate to trust your instincts because you know best what he would like as a present. For example, he might love a kit full of personalized items belonging to his favorite team from a particular sport. 



Something like a bottle of his favorite designer cologne would be a very personal and intimate gift but you might decide to give him something like that after assessing how close your relationship is. 



Put your heart and soul into selecting the best possible gift for him and you will surely find something with a lot of emotional value. And do not forget that he will appreciate the gesture you are making by actually getting him something, so do not worry about finding something absolutely perfect.

The perfect gift does not have to be the most expensive item in the shop. There are a lot of affordable things that would also make for good present so keep your budget in mind when going shopping. 


And do not forget to wrap the present beautifully so that you make the moment even more special by presenting it in a heart-warming manner.




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Considering advice for your relationship

By Elton Gula


If you are a teen and you want to get that good looking girl in the next class to be your girlfriend, then you will surely need some good relationship advice. When you are a teen, you are mostly lead by your hormones when it comes to girls and this is why you need relationship advice to straighten you up and tell you what you should say and do in order to maintain a healthy relationship. In this regard, maybe you will want to take a look at the magic of making up book, as it will change the way you look at your relationship and girlfriend.

My advice, which you can also find in the magic of making up book, is to try and be the man that she always wanted to see in your or do things that she always wanted you to do. Surprising your loved one pleasantly is something that can work miracles. Also, you must believe in every little thing that you do as this will certainly make your partner believe that you really want something to change in this once beautiful, romantic relationship.

The most important problem in a couple is definitely sex, especially when you are involved in a relationship that is been going on for some years now. If you are having problems with this, then you will need to look for some new and good sex positions and also do things that you haven't done before. If you do those kinky things you know you love so much, then you will certainly get to bring this relationship out of the water.

Communication is the key and that is why you need to communicate with your partner and tell him or her what is it that makes you feel bad in this relationship. Putting the blame on him or her is not a solution and it will never yield positive results.

You might find that good advice is to make sure that you change your looks. This is something that you will not take care of from a certain age so much and if you will attend it, then your partner will surely notice it. Feel sexy, look sexy and act sexy. You will see the results popping in no time.

In the end, it all comes down to how you know to manage the different plans you will employ and how well you will follow the magic of making up system. If you are smart enough and have a good emotional intelligence, you will be able to employ my advice flawlessly.




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How To Apologize To Your Boyfriend - 6 Easy Ways

By Sarah Scott


Once you realize you're wrong, and you know you owe it, how do you go about apologizing to your boyfriend? Apologies imply fault, and for many people, the two hardest things to do are to admit they were wrong and say they're sorry. "Forgive and forget" is advice more easily given than followed. Here are some ways you can help your boyfriend get over his hurt and resentment:

How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend Step 1

Your timing can be critical. It's not a good time for an apology, for instance, if he's preoccupied or upset. Either wait until he's able to pay attention to you calmly, or arrange such a situation - invite him to dinner, for example, or a nice walk. If you want your boyfriend to accept your apology to accept it and forgive you, you must pay careful attention to the timing.

How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend Step 2

Your apology must be sincere, and must really express the remorse you feel for what happened. Serious apologies over significant issues should never be done over the phone. Look him directly in the eye and express yourself with sincerity. If you are not absolutely sincere in your apology, he will be able to tell from your eyes.

How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend Step 3

When you apologize, keep it short and sweet, and don't try to analyze and explain every little detail. Nothing beyond "I'm sorry" and a brief explanation of what you did wrong is necessary. Long explanations sound like excuses and justification of your behavior, and will persuade your boyfriend that you're being insincere.

How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend Step 4

A nice gift at this point will also help. You know what he likes, so make it something you know he'll really appreciate. Your gift should express your deep affection for him, like a homemade card or sports tickets to his favorite team. You could also prepare a special meal for him, or take him out to dinner!

How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend Step 5

When apologizing, be ready for a negative reaction. A positive response to an apology isn't guaranteed. Even though he may have told you he accepted your apology, your boyfriend might still be upset with you. Therefore, don't be surprised by any negative response he makes. A negative response is fairly natural, and you shouldn't take it to heart. Most wounds, they say, heal with time, and the more he's aware of your sincerity, the sooner that time will come.

How to Apologize to Your Boyfriend Step 6

If there are consequences for your mistake, it's important that you accept them. You can't avoid taking responsibility for your mistakes just by apologizing for them. Did you break something of his, or damage it, and costly repairs have to be done? Go ahead and take care of it joyfully. Even if it causes somewhat of a financial hardship, it'll show him your level of sincerity.Keep in mind that just because you apologized to your boyfriend, it doesn't mean he will forgive you, just be prepared for whatever may happen (even if you already made amends).

Even if you take some special action in addition to your apology, forgiveness isn't guaranteed and you will need to be prepared for any eventuality.

It's difficult to apologize to your boyfriend. One of the most important things to consider is that it must be from your heart. Your apology must include an admission of fault or guilt, and that's never comfortable. Once the apology has been made, close the episode and move on. How you overcome these difficult times - together - will strengthen your relationship.




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