Little fights are normal in a relationship. In fact, some experts say it is important to have minute fights so that the both of you can release small amounts of tensions and negativity. Aside from that, it is also vital because only then in fighting can you see the true character of your partner. In other words, once you resolve the fight, both of you will now be ready to face any challenges that come your way.
The only problem is when the fights and misunderstandings become more consistent and major. This happens when petty fights turn into the major issues that cause problems in the relationship. Instead of talking it over like true adults, all you do is sleep under the dark cloud above your head hoping that during the next day, things would be different and that things may go as smooth as they are supposed to. Instead, petty issues turn into major misunderstandings that are not easy to mend.
When this happens to two people, they usually end up separating because of too many emotional bruises. However, some couples are very hopeful that they could still mend the peacefulness in the relationship. What they would usually do is to settle things is the lighter shade by talking things over with each other. Laying down issues that have not been handled over yet and discussing possible solutions to the problems are two ways of fixing the relationship.
Another thing that you could do is to rekindle back the romance in the relationship. Setting a day for a date is one way to rekindle the romance that was lost because of too much tension. Set a date that would make you laugh all the time.
Sharing a good laugh with your partner is a good way to remind each other that even if you may have some difficulties and issues that came in the past, you can still bring back that flame by making funny jokes.
The only problem is when the fights and misunderstandings become more consistent and major. This happens when petty fights turn into the major issues that cause problems in the relationship. Instead of talking it over like true adults, all you do is sleep under the dark cloud above your head hoping that during the next day, things would be different and that things may go as smooth as they are supposed to. Instead, petty issues turn into major misunderstandings that are not easy to mend.
When this happens to two people, they usually end up separating because of too many emotional bruises. However, some couples are very hopeful that they could still mend the peacefulness in the relationship. What they would usually do is to settle things is the lighter shade by talking things over with each other. Laying down issues that have not been handled over yet and discussing possible solutions to the problems are two ways of fixing the relationship.
Another thing that you could do is to rekindle back the romance in the relationship. Setting a day for a date is one way to rekindle the romance that was lost because of too much tension. Set a date that would make you laugh all the time.
Sharing a good laugh with your partner is a good way to remind each other that even if you may have some difficulties and issues that came in the past, you can still bring back that flame by making funny jokes.
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