If you suspect your husband of cheating, make sure you give him plenty of rope to hang himself with. By that I mean let him make the mistakes - so don't accuse him until you have concrete proof that will stand up in court, if it comes to it. Infidelity is on the rise, so here are some of the top ways available to catch your cheating husband.
1. 9 out of 10 cheaters do so in their own bed at some point in the relationship. If you suspect your husband of cheating on you in your own bed, make it a special way, then check every day - if you husband has been using it without you, chances are he won't have made it correctly.
2. Set a trap. Use one of your friends that he doesn't know to help you with this. Get your friend to check on him at a bar or a party and record the conversation. One easy way to do this is to have her call either your or her answering service just before she talks to him, this way you can have concrete proof of his infidelity.
3. Your husband will more than likely take full advantage of the fact that you are out of town. So you can trick your husband by telling him that you will be going away for a weekend, be sure to give him details of when you are leaving and when you are expected back. Say goodbye, find a good vantage point from which to view your house and wait, you should not have to wait too long.
4. You should be keeping a close eye on all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check all credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, receipts and check everything for unusual transactions. These are sometimes obvious like motel rooms or gifts that you never received. However he may be devious, so check all cash withdrawals, chances are your husband is paying for things with cash to avoid a paper trail, if you notice that the same sum of money is leaving your account at the same time each week, then you can be pretty sure your cheating husband is using it to pay for a room with his new partner.Make note of any strange dates and times.
5. Check all phone records, both the home phone, and his cellphone. Make a note of any unusual for members, numbers that are repeatedly use, or a number is that are called at strange times of the day. Also keep a close eye on how your husband uses his cellphone, does he always move out of earshot before answering it?
If you have no concrete information on your husband you can always play the bluff, try saying something like, I know what you've been up to and I will give you one chance to own up and tell me the truth. You may be able to get the information you need, but chances are he will just lie to the bitter end.
I can guarantee you that he will screw up at some point, you may need to be more patient, but stay watchful. You could go out and hire a private investigator, however, this is often expensive and there is still a chance that your husband is not cheating. I advise you to follow the above steps and keep rigorous notes of your findings.
1. 9 out of 10 cheaters do so in their own bed at some point in the relationship. If you suspect your husband of cheating on you in your own bed, make it a special way, then check every day - if you husband has been using it without you, chances are he won't have made it correctly.
2. Set a trap. Use one of your friends that he doesn't know to help you with this. Get your friend to check on him at a bar or a party and record the conversation. One easy way to do this is to have her call either your or her answering service just before she talks to him, this way you can have concrete proof of his infidelity.
3. Your husband will more than likely take full advantage of the fact that you are out of town. So you can trick your husband by telling him that you will be going away for a weekend, be sure to give him details of when you are leaving and when you are expected back. Say goodbye, find a good vantage point from which to view your house and wait, you should not have to wait too long.
4. You should be keeping a close eye on all financial transactions that your husband carries out. Check all credit card statements, ATM withdrawals, receipts and check everything for unusual transactions. These are sometimes obvious like motel rooms or gifts that you never received. However he may be devious, so check all cash withdrawals, chances are your husband is paying for things with cash to avoid a paper trail, if you notice that the same sum of money is leaving your account at the same time each week, then you can be pretty sure your cheating husband is using it to pay for a room with his new partner.Make note of any strange dates and times.
5. Check all phone records, both the home phone, and his cellphone. Make a note of any unusual for members, numbers that are repeatedly use, or a number is that are called at strange times of the day. Also keep a close eye on how your husband uses his cellphone, does he always move out of earshot before answering it?
If you have no concrete information on your husband you can always play the bluff, try saying something like, I know what you've been up to and I will give you one chance to own up and tell me the truth. You may be able to get the information you need, but chances are he will just lie to the bitter end.
I can guarantee you that he will screw up at some point, you may need to be more patient, but stay watchful. You could go out and hire a private investigator, however, this is often expensive and there is still a chance that your husband is not cheating. I advise you to follow the above steps and keep rigorous notes of your findings.
About the Author:
Pauline Stradlen works as a Private Investigator and owns a website for people who think they might be in a cheating relationship. To track your partners phone records visit http://www.answersabc.com
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