2/27/11

How To Determine If You Are Ready To Get Married

By Steven Crossley


After you've been with someone for a long time you automatically want your relationship to move to the next level. This leads to thoughts of marriage suddenly swirling around your brain. There are ways to decide whether or not you're ready to tie the knot. The reason you need to consider moving ahead 500 times is obvious. It is indeed the biggest decision of your life and haste makes waste.

If you really want it, you'll have to show it. Your partner must know how important you are and how good you two will be as one forever. It works to casually comment on how life would suck being separated. Let them know exactly how bad separation, breaking up or any such thing would be. Be entirely dramatic. It will probably work for you.

It is best to not be "overly-available". This can lead to your partner taking you for granted which is something you don't want. Sometimes people are so "extremely in love" that they forget all about personal space which can be very bothersome for their partner. This common issue is best eliminated if you want a healthy relationship which can easily progress.

Spending time with friends and avoiding calls from your partner will make them wonder where you are which will avoid the risk of you being taken for granted. Once your partner knows you have a social life they'll immediately want to know about it and therefore take even more interest in you. At the same time they will realize that your personality is in fact on that is socially accepted.

You should always keep a few hobbies in hand which you can pursue any time instead of giving them all up for your relationship. Spending time with him/her is important but there is no greater love than self love. It is fact that should be remembered.

An individual personality is very important. Your partner will be chiefly attracted to who you are therefore; you must always have your unique interests and passions. Flaunting them also goes a long way if the tiara fits.

Why do i want them to marry me? Do not forget to ask yourself that question. You don't want to "get it out" of the person. Marriage should be part of a naturally developing relationship. You aren't their mom to force them into anything. It might prove to be a complete disaster if you try too hard.

It's okay to work it out just a bit but if you have to keep slaving away, there might be someone else meant for you. It's a big world out there and what do you know, if it doesn't work out with one person there might be another better soul mate out there for you.




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