2/7/11

Keep It Up, Nice Guys - You'll Win in the Long Run at Finding Dates

By Mike Morton


The exciting world of dating is so multi-faceted. Every dating experience will teach you something new, and you'll never really learn to put together a flawless first date. But there are some essential dating tips that everyone should master.

If you've already got your sights set on someone, slow down and take some time to figure out where you would bring her if she says yes. Remember that you don't have to shell out too much to have a great time, so you can go and skip that expensive restaurant that everyone's raving about. Going out on a date is about getting to know someone, so forget about taking her to that dance club where you won't get the chance to talk.

Practice your conversation skills. Studies have shown that women talk more than men, so practice being a good listener too. Talk about movies, current events, hobbies, or anything under the sun. You might just discover you have a lot of things in common during your conversation. Tell a joke or two, as humor is a great icebreaker.

It's not easy finding the right time to ask a girl out on a date, but do your best to find a moment when she's not preoccupied with other things or with other people. If you maintain eye contact and confidence, she'll definitely have a hard time saying no!

Make her feel special by treating her with courtesy and respect. Just opening the door for a girl can already make a huge difference. And remember that a girl appreciates a man who listens.

It's a must to look smart when you're on a date. So wear clothes that are both comfortable but clean and pressed. You don't need fancy clothes for an informal occasion, so stash your suits back into your closets and choose something more fitting for a casual date at a cafe or restaurant.

If you do get to ask that burning question and she turns you down, don't take it hard. Maybe the timing's not right, or she's really busy. Shrug it off and move on. There are a lot of single girls out there. You won't run out of dates for sure.

Have a plan in mind already on where you're taking her. Find out if you're willing to pay big bucks




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