2/14/11

Moving Gradually To Have Your Ex Back In Your Arms

By Lady Hampton


The situation is really tough when one after an extensive and concrete relation is left alone by the partner. The confusion, injury and turmoil are the factors that engulf one in such situation, making it hard to do something right even if one wants to get the partner back.

One has to be conscious in his/her efforts to win the ex back. He/she has to give proper thinking to every idea that comes to the mind before bringing them into action. It is of course possible to win the ex partner back.

The first thing to be done is looking into the matter and identifying what made the situation occur. The cause of this major step by your partner if identified can help you a lot in your future planning. If you both had an argument and you were at fault, it's better to leave him/her alone for some time.

This will give the ex a chance to realize his/her mistake or heel the hurt feelings. Once done with that, he/she will start missing you. This distance from you would be blessing in disguise as it will make him/her to come near you.

But if the fault is yours and you made the split occur, you better be sorry for it and apologize to your ex partner. Tell your ex partner that you are sorry for the causing the pain and you really understand how it feels when one gets hurt. Confess your fault and leave the rest to your partner to think about.

Time is an important factor in settling issues. In your case too, your ex partner needs time to get his/her bad feelings settled. So you better not contact him/her and start planning relation rebuilding or asking him/her for a comeback. With time the ex will be ready on his/her own to talk to you about the issue and you will get the chance to win back the ex.

Once both you and your ex come over the mixed emotions and the pain of separation lessens, its time you arrange a get together. This however is a critical phase and should be the initial step for you and your ex to rebuild the broken relationship. Therefore make sure you are friendly, pleasant and warm with your ex partner in this meeting.

Have patience! Only patience and your considerate act will provide a solid ground for the split relation to rebuild. Gradual efforts towards rebuilding the relationship will be more fruitful.




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