2/27/11

Tips To Avoid Arguments With Stressful Personalities

By Traci R. Lee


It is obvious that some people are not very easy to get on with but the good news is that it is possible to bring a change to this sad situation. These people who are often referred to by others as bullies might even be among your colleagues in the office.

The usual reaction to such uncivil and disrespectful people is for the general public to just swallow it all and not to retaliate. This raises a lot of temperatures in the public places with guys left to decide what to do next.

People tend to deal with such type of rudeness in different ways. Not knowing what steps to take, there are those who would just brace it out, but others like to just smile it away. Well, the latter is a better option since smiling is a positive reaction that can help more than losing your temper.

It may seem a very difficult thing to do but once you can initiate the move, it will progress very well - simply smile. Notice that you are not required to bare your teeth like a predator, please give a genuine smile with your mind directed towards something good you may see in them. You might just see them reciprocating.

Once you get to penetrate that tough facade to know them better; these people are actually just soft hearted and their hard stance is normally to deal with something you no one can discern.

You might turn out to be one in a million when you seek to make a difference in this world. Do not do what everyone else would do, choose to be different by showing him love instead of hatred like the others would be tempted to.

These people might not be behaving well according to the usual standards but you never really know what triggers their odd behavior. Some may be undergoing stressful conditions that cause them nervousness, insecurity; but they might also simply be suffering from arrogance and naivety.

After getting behind the matter, you will be shocked to discover that the guy is just a normal person but is undergoing lots of psychological stress. Choose to show him love and make a difference .




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