3/21/11

Being Nice to Women Gets Dates

By Mike Morton


Been having a tough time in the dating scene? Spending time alone for the past months? Dating, while nerve-racking for some guys, can actually be fun. Follow these tips and you won't have to worry about the outcome:

Start with asking yourself some questions. This will make your motivations clearer. Are you dating just for fun, or are you looking for a girl to marry and be your partner for life? Are you on the rebound, or are you dating just to get back at your ex-girlfriend?

You have to be dating for the right reasons, and not because you want to get back at someone. Whether you're looking for friends or a future wife, When you ask yourself these questions, you'll be clear on your motivations, and you'll have a ready answer if your date happens to ask you why you're single and unattached.

Also, don't be too picky. Dating is much like picking out a potential mate in a room. We all have our own biases with physical attributes. We are attracted to people who are pretty, handsome and have fit bodies. But don't be too extreme or too set in your ways. You'll be limiting yourself to few people on the onset.

The standards you've set might be unreasonable. Don't place too much importance on physical appearance, like facial features or body figure. The cliche that goes 'don't judge a book by its cover' holds true. Make an effort to strike up a conversation with women, regardless of their height, looks and proportion.

Bear in mind that if you're searching for a potential girlfriend, your date is searching for the man of her dreams too. Take care in the way you look. Do the basic stuff, like take a shower, have clean hands and fingernails, and have breath mints on hand. Your date will appreciate the effort you put into looking good.

Talk about light stuff with your date. Ask her about her hobbies and find out if you've got something in common with her. Make the conversation light since the two of you just met. Don't talk about politics, religion, or how much you make in your jobs.

Dating can be easy and fun! It won't be as hard as it seems if you start with examining yourself. Follow these tips and you'll. Whether or not you have a follow-up date, What's important is to have a great time.




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