3/12/11

Body Language Tricks While Dating

By Henry V. Hanlon


There are so many things that we have to do correctly when we are on the dating scene if we want the fruits to be a budding long term relationship. One of these things that we have to watch and execute properly is our body language.

One of the most effective ways of conveying your attraction through your body language is by using eye contact. If you are interested in getting the attention of somebody who is across the room then you are going to have to stabilize some eye contact. Keep throwing them some side glances and eventually when you are sure they are looking directly into your eyes just smile and look away almost shyly.

This will already show the person that something about them has captured your interest and now it is their turn to decide how to respond to this. They can either act on this and show the other person affection back, or ignore it for any number of reasons.

The next step is once again to make some more eye contact but this time when they catch you do not look away. Hold the eye contact and give them a smile.

The next thing that you will always have to be watchful about in the world of dating is the way you look. In the same way that you are attracted to somebody who cares about the way they look is the same way whoever you are interested in cares about how you take care of your appearance.

The next thing that you have to pay close attention to is in the messages your hands are sending. For example, clenching your fists through the date is just a sign that you don't want to get close to somebody and if anything, the person is irritating you. Try and caress your glass sensually for example to send a message of wanting to hold the person you are talking to.

When you get to know your date better you can then move on to touching him/her sensually.

All these things may seem hard or unnecessary but when you think about it they are what makes the dating scene so much fun and help us pick the right people to get into a relationship.




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