3/19/11

Dating Tips For The Serious Man

By Trisha Moore


It is common to meet with men who have no interest in longtime commitments. All they want is a one night fling or a couple of meetings with the woman which will stop the moment he meets a greener pasture so to speak.

On the other hand it is very possible to meet with men who are serious in the look for a longtime partner. For this king of a man, the tactics are different from the man mentioned above since it is more serious and more focused.

Assuming you have your choice for a future wife, it is good to advance your discussions from just the attractions and flirting to a more serious and permanent chats. This is meant to know each other better. As you do this, avoid majoring on material things .Labor to know her heart and personality more.

One important thing to know is that before you take the date too far by assumption, it will be prudent to ensure that you are on the same thought. That is, if she is of the idea of long term commitment.

This is the trick, if the woman you are dating is interested on a casual date and meeting up with you; she will not be willing to open up to you in that direction from the very beginning. Another sign that she is for the idea of a long term commitment, take her to a more sober areas like restaurants or a formal area. If you get closer to her you can learn more about each other.

After you have established that the woman in question is having the same interest as you, move on and intensify the conversation in the direction of marriage. In other words, be more serious in your conversation instead of just being casual as at first.

If you are convinced that this is your long-term queen, move on to date her and take that next step in a relationship. Begin it in a casual way then move it from here to a more serious momentum as the days progress.

Women hate men who don't have confidence in making some long term commitments especially in this matter of marriage. If you can not have confidence and show an ability to make the commitment, how can this girl make a commitment to you. If you have the guts then they will find you more attractive and it could help you move your relationship further.




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