3/12/11

Four Reasons Why Women Dump Men

By Steve Steiner


There are four occasions that will cause women to dump with men. Even with just one of these problems in the relationship, a breakup will eventually happen. We will discuss the four key reasons as to why women leave men so that you can examine your own relationship and conclude if it is at risk.

The first thing is control, which can be two sided. When a man or woman is controlling, they will drive their partner away from them, even if the relationship is otherwise excellent. Women particularly enjoy their independence, so relax your grip on her every once in a while. It is to say that women need room to breath once in a while; there are times when women do things that only a woman should do. For instance, a night out with the girls to spend hours drinking flirtinis and margaritas chatting about things you probably don't care about. These sorts of things are essentially just a means that allows women to relax and get rid of some stress.

The next problem is jealousy. There is nothing more detrimental to a relationship than a jealous man constantly watching over the whereabout of his woman and what she is doing. Jealousy is a control problem that needs to be handled. A woman's love will fade with eruptions of jealousy. The man is hesitant of her love and commitment, even if he has no cause to be With each display of jealousy, the man is hurting their relationship.

The next cause is that the woman does not want a man that is a push-over, since women tend to be most attracted to confident men that stand up for themselves (and their women). Women are searching for a man that can take charge situations and not someone that is needy and always expects someone else to step up and take care of things. The woman needs to feel secure and that the man next to her can care for and protect her. So get in the habit of taking the lead and quit being so wishy-washy whenever you are making plans.

The last reason is that no one wants to live with a bum. A woman seeks protection and needs the comfort of being secure and that her man is able to provide for her. You can't just expect your woman to stick by your side if you don't have any real goals or aspirations with your life. Focus on finding something you can devote your life to and get extremely passionate about it. When a man has a solid goal and is continuously working toward it, it somehow makes his woman feel incredibly devoted and committed to him. A woman likes to boast about how exciting her man is and how he makes her feel. This won't happen if you just watch TV all day.

If you can handle these four aspects of your relationship then you will have a long healthy relationship with any woman. If you find any of these four things in yourself then you will probably have a hard time establishing a lasting relationship with any woman.




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