3/4/11

Guess What, the Angry Guy Doesn't Get You More Dates

By Mike Morton


The way you treat a woman says a lot about your personality. And women fall for respectful guys. If you're not the outspoken and showy kind, you may have a hard time in trying to figure out how to make a particular girl feel that she's special to you.

Every woman wants a nice guy, but that's just one trait in a long list that she probably formed since she was a teenager. Traits like trustworthiness, generosity and kindness are just part of this long list, so to give you an idea on what women would really look for in a guy, here's a sample:

Self-Confidence. Men who carry themselves well and exude an air of confidence usually appeal to women. Being able to engage her in a witty conversation, and maintaining eye contact when you talk, are signs of coolness.

The sensitive guy. Girls love guys who are responsive to their needs as a woman; and complain about guys who are too masculine to care about their femininity. Know her needs and listen to her. Pay to attention to her when she tells you she has a problem or even she's plainly sharing the day's events to you. Do simple gestures like lending her your jacket if it's cold, helping her get out of the car or holding the door for her.

Thoughtfulness. It's always a plus factor when guys are thoughtful. In fact, remembering significant events such as birthdays and anniversaries is crucial in maintaining a relationship. Go the extra mile and give her flowers or you can go to her personally to greet her. Letting her know you give importance to such occasions matter.

Compliments will always be appreciated. A guy who's generous with praises and is sincere about his compliments will surely make a woman fall for her more. Show her that she's much appreciated. As men are said to be insensitive, practice a little consideration. Flattery, when truly meant, will get you places.

The good communicator. Since women tend to talk more than men, they expect guys to listen. The key to a good relationship is good and open communication between the two of you. Whenever you don't feel like talking, don't just disengage yourself from her. A good communicator knows when to talk and when to listen.

These are just some of the basic traits women look for in a potential mate. If you genuinely have these qualities and are sincerely nice through and through, then making the girl of your dreams fall for you should be easy!




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