3/7/11

How To Endure Emotional Pains

By Johnny K. Peterson


We all live and consider ourselves as humans because we have emotions. Our actions are most of the time based on how we feel and how we connect with other people using our emotions. Sometimes, it may end up being a hurtful experience for us and some would rather move away from that experience while others head full on to conquer that painful emotion. Each and every person is different so there are also different ways for people to deal with the pain.

Feeling emotional pain is normal for a human being. Everyday, we feel the bout of pain that a person has done to us and yet we are still alive. People experience and perceive pain in different ways. An experience that is painful for you might not be painful for others.

List down the things that you are thankful for and this should include the hardships as well as the pain you are feeling right now. Be thankful and learn to appreciate life as well as pain as it is a full circle. We all feel pain and yet it is in that pain that we tend to become stronger.

Be more aware of your feelings. Identify each and every emotion you are feeling as you will learn how to deal with them when the time comes. The more you are in tune to your feelings the more you will be able to handle them once they come.

There is only one cure for the pain and the hurtful feelings you are carrying and that is time. Time helps heal all wounds they say and you should allow time to do it. Never hold grudges to anyone as it will only prolong the agony.

Talk to your friends and family if you are in pain. They will surely understand what you are going through right now and they will have something to say to help you cope up with the feelings you have. Learn to trust them and feel free to speak to them.

Allow yourself to be in pain but not all the time. Do not let it consume your entire being and let it not be the sole purpose for living your life. Tell yourself that you are only going to feel the pain for a couple of minutes every day and then breathe and let it all pass you.

Do not let the pain consume your entire being. Let it not dictate who you really are as a person because each and every person has the right to be happy. No one in this world would want to feel sad and alone all the time.




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