3/7/11

Jerks or Nice Guy - What Gets You More Dates?

By Mike Morton


It can be hard to guess if a woman likes you. But there are some ways to know if you and the girl you're dating actually have a future together. There's really no clear-cut way to figure it out, but women have a few habits that usually come out when they like a guy.

Sometimes a girl just needs a man in her life, more often for friendship over a romantic relationship. Maybe she wants to just give you a chance because she's tired of spending Friday nights alone. If you seem like a nice guy to her, she might just be afraid of putting you down. But doesn't it help to know if she really likes you or not?

When a woman's body language seems to be a little off after a few dates, then she may already like you. Sometimes girls would have difficulty saying things and might feel a little awkward around a guy they like because they're a lot more self-conscious about what they say and do.

Look at the way she flirts. If it's to get information from you, then she might want to know if the feeling is mutual. If your flirting moves catch her off-guard, then she might like you.

If she starts talking more about her family or her personal life, then she already trusts you. Check out her reaction when you talk about the same topics. If you see that sparkle in her eyes and you sense that she's listening to your every word and getting animated in her conversation, then she might just be into you.

Girls tell their friends everything. You don't have to ask them about her because chances are, if she likes you, she would ask them to talk to you for her or at least fish around for information.

Girls can be really confusing. Sometimes you just know that they like you because of the gut feeling a situation gives you. Usually their words or actions can betray how they really feel. You have to learn to read in between the lines too.

Set aside your ego and find out more about her. Be open to possibilities. Don't be too scared to find out if your dating will lead to something else. So if you think that a girl may be interested in you, and you feel the same way, then go for it!




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