I would like to ask you a question.
Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?
Well, there is a reason that happened!
Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.
You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her. Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.
Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject.
Mixed signals are what this is. Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.
Here are some common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious
Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling. What they don't realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.
And if you haven't laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.
MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!
On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!
MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions
Although, flirting includes what you say and the way you say it, the most powerful performance comes from your non-verbal body language. The small simple things like raising an eyebrow, tilting your head to one side and that wicked little grin, that carries the most meaning in a seemingly innocent remark.
MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously
Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.
You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt. We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?
But the key here is to be SUBTLE.
Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.
Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.
While doing this, you begin to notice the attraction that is building between you and the woman. Before much longer, all that harmless flirting turns into outright seduction. Now the real fun begins.
Have you ever been stuck in the friend mode with a woman you meet and like, despite all your best romantic efforts?
Well, there is a reason that happened!
Understand: Flirting is a very important part of the attraction process, and if you do it wrong (or worse yet, not at all!), the odds of blowing your chance with the girl go up significantly.
You can increase the attraction a woman finds in you by knowing how to flirt with her. Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.
Flirting with a woman is an art form. Flirting is the ability to communicate the romantic interest you have for a woman, while being subtle about the subject.
Mixed signals are what this is. Your actions are communicating one thing, but your words are saying something completely different.
Here are some common mistakes most guys make when flirting with girls:
MISTAKE #1: They Are Way Too Obvious
Too many guys get excited about the women they are attracted to, and will come out and say exactly what they are feeling. What they don't realize is that when presented with this information, the girl is then forced to make a judgment, right then and there, about how she feels about THEM.
And if you haven't laid the proper groundwork beforehand, chances are the girl is going to reject you.
MISTAKE #2: Not Being Obvious Enough!
On the flip side of that coin are the guys who communicate NO INTEREST AT ALL, yet in their minds they think that the girl should know how they are feeling. Then, when they make their move, the girl is surprised because up to this point, she had no idea the guy was interested in her!
MISTAKE #3: Relying On Words Rather Than Actions
Although, flirting includes what you say and the way you say it, the most powerful performance comes from your non-verbal body language. The small simple things like raising an eyebrow, tilting your head to one side and that wicked little grin, that carries the most meaning in a seemingly innocent remark.
MISTAKE #4: They Take Things Too Seriously
Flirting is a lot of fun and not so much a secret as some might consider, however when done incorrectly it will not work.
You are doing something wrong when you or the woman is not having fun while you flirt. We could list more mistakes; however, this should provide you with a clear picture. Do you wonder what the right way to begin flirting is?
But the key here is to be SUBTLE.
Flirting communicates your attraction, although you never come right out and say it. Flirting is a lighthearted fun form of insinuation.
Then, as you begin to flirt more and more, you can start getting a little more obvious about your interests, while never really crossing that line.
While doing this, you begin to notice the attraction that is building between you and the woman. Before much longer, all that harmless flirting turns into outright seduction. Now the real fun begins.
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