3/30/11

Planning Your Modern Wedding

By Ann Daniels


The demand for more modern weddings is understandable, given that many of the traditions associated with the marriage ceremony have roots in diferent times and cultures in which marriage was very often a political strategy or a business agreement rather than a love match.

When one considers that most of the elements generally regarded as necessary for the wedding day are used and then disposed of or put away after the day itself, it's plain to see that the wedding rings, as the one exception, are the most important material part of a wedding. Plain wedding rings in classic metals like gold and platinum are still well-liked, but the demand for more modern and unique wedding rings is formidable. For a fancier style, eternity rings with diamonds and other precious stones might be the way to go, and for something in a cutting-edge material and design, tungsten carbide is likely the smart choice.

Tungsten carbide rings, commonly abbreviated as "tungsten rings" are perhaps the most modern choice one can make in picking the right jewelry for a cutting-edge contemporary wedding. These rings are very hard and strong, scratch-resistant, and tarnish-proof, and they look great with a brushed or polished finish, laser etching, and all of the other distinctive design accents tungsten rings and the related technology make possible.

As far as the day of goes, music is an integral part of the wedding ceremony-- who doesn't immediately recall the strains of the wedding march whenever the subject of these ceremonies comes up? But it's your day, so never feel limited to doing something just because it's always been done. I was a bridesmaid in some beatifully unique weddings for friends last fall, and one bride entered the chapel to a string quartet playing the Beatles' "In My Life", while the other wedding took place in a historical theater and made use of the "Lord of the Rings" soundtrack.

The rules have changed regarding wedding flowers as well-- the white roses and baby's breath of traditional bouquets are now often edged out by bright colors, exotic plants, and non-floral accents like ribbons and crystals. For the wedding I discussed above, the bride carried a bouquet of flowers sculpted from metal and glass while we bridesmaids held bunches of peacock feathers.

Much like the modern concept of marriage itself, the modern wedding is definitely more about the couple and the choices and tastes they prefer rather than a strategic move or attempt to do everything properly according to outdated standards.




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