3/21/11

What To Do When You Miss Your Ex

By Maria F. Lindquist


I never expected that it will happen. For all along, I knew that everything's okay with us. I thought that everything's going well in our relationship. Then, all of a sudden, he dropped the bomb. He wanted to end the relationship.

He had dumped me. He said he doesn't want me anymore and he wants himself out of the relationship. But, I just couldn't let him go though; it will be foolish of me not to end the relationship. So out he went and left me with a broken heart and soul.

Long after our break up, I still continue to call him and this annoyed him very much. I make calls just to let him know that I miss him and that I want to know how he's been doing. Of course, I knew this is not making my chance of getting him back any better but I just can't control myself. Missing him so much made me miserable.

That was it! I felt so degraded and ask myself why I am doing such a stupid move? If I wanted him back so badly, then why I am losing him more?

Then suddenly it hit me, the right thing came into my mind. I stopped calling him. I vowed to myself, that if I want him back, I must make him miss me. Make him realize that he's about to lose the best person that he will ever have! And it's me!

To make him miss me, I erased all of his contact information in my phone, on my computer, and from anything that could remind me of him. I started living my life again. I buried myself in works and left no time for me to think of him.

Then out of the blue, a phone call from him came. At first, I ignored it and waited for some more calls before I finally talked to him. It was effective, the moment I talked to him, he asked me to take him back.

It is essential to note that your guy will never come to a realization that they miss you when you are always there for him. If you want to make your guy aware of your absence, you should avoid contacting him or communicating with him at least for a couple of weeks. You'll be really surprised with what will happen next.

As a woman, there are just certain things you have to know to get your man back in your life. If you do the right move, he'll be coming back you.




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