4/5/11

3 Essential Guidelines to End Dating Rejection

By Chase Chandler


Everybody wants to feel special. You want to be appreciated for who you are. Simply, you want to be loved, especially by the opposite sex. On a date, you always put your best foot forward, with the hope that she will like what she sees in front of her"of course, with the hope as well that a second date may be possible.

Not everything will work out as you planned. You may feel that you are constantly having a bad streak. Tough luck for you. But with this article, you will learn 3 important tips that may just change all these, and end dating rejection.

Tip 1: Love yourself first. This is very important, since before you start to make an effect on the circumstances around you, you must first start to make positive changes inside you. This means thinking positive things and feeling good about yourself"and you cant do these without loving yourself first.

Being comfortable with who you are, you will not have to think whether other people approve of you. You simply don't care anymore because you are at peace with who you are and who you are not. If you love yourself, it will show. And your date will notice this when you talk and interact with her.

Tip 2: Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you are not. It will show"and it will be to your disadvantage. Nobody wants a pretender as their date. This will be a turn-off for your date. So don't over-impress someone just so you would be liked. It doesn't work this way.

You have to be yourself and be brave to let her decide whether she likes who you really are. Remember, you cant continue pretending all your life. So better let her know the real you early on to prevent things from getting complicated.

Tip 3: Listen to your date. Don't talk too much that may just leave her out with not much chance to share her thoughts. Learn to listen, and listen sincerely that is. Be genuinely interested with what she has to say. Give her the chance to express herself. Not only will you make her feel good, you will be able to get more information about her. So, to end dating rejection, love yourself first, be true to yourself and be genuinely interested with her.

All these 3 important tips will be your guide for successful dating. Dates going bad will be a thing in the past. You will find dating to be more enjoyable since you no longer pretend to be somebody you are not and you become more interested with your dates.




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