4/20/11

Going Out On A Blind Date

By Owen Jones


Blind dating is a fairly familiar way of dating. It often happens when a friend asks his or her buddy to go on a date with someone who is a friend of his or her partner. Occasionally, two strangers are introduced with the intention of blind dating by a mutual friend or coworker. This match-maker generally is of the conviction that the two people would make a good couple or at least turn out to be great friends.

If you are asked to go out on a blind date with a friend of a friend by a someone you have confidence in or even just a colleague, who knows you well, you might want to consider going. If your pal knows the other person as well as they know you, they might well be right about the two of you getting along well together. You might even end up being very grateful to your friend, who kept you in mind. After all, it does demonstrate that your pal thinks about your well-being.

Going on a blind date is exciting, notably because when you go on a blind date you might not have any idea what the other person looks like or you might have been shown a picture or even told to recognize the other person by an article of clothing like in some old-fashioned romantic novel - wearing or carrying a red rose, for instance.

In nearly all situations, the person you will be going out with will be someone you have never met or spoken to before or you may have seen them in another class or office, but have never spoken to them and don't know their name. It is normal to be nervous about going on a blind date, partially because you don?t know whether the person will like you and partly because you don?t know whether you will like the other person. It can be nerve-wracking, but you must try to use that nervous tension to good purpose. Don't forget, you are both in the same boat after all.

Some individuals really take pleasure in being set up on a blind date and many blind dates turn into flourishing relationships, especially if the right people set the two of you up. The anticipation of meeting someone you have never met before, but who desires to meet you is exhilarating.

It is a good tip to try to find out as much background as you possibly can about the person, without invading privacy, of course, before you go. Try to be certain that your friend knows the other person well before you go in order to be fairly sure that the date will not be a disaster. However, even that precaution does not guarantee success. Success depends on both of you trying to make it a pleasant date, whatever you make your mind up to do: drinks, dinner, motion picture etc..




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