4/2/11

Grounds For Infidelity

By Mina G. Barnard


What could be more blissful than a wedding day? The look of your parents while putting on that white wedding dress and the relative's gratefulness of receiving an invitation are just one of those things you can never ever forget. All these wonderful memories lingering each day, but a sudden change from the gaze of your husband made you feel so empty and wondering.

What exactly is there to do when marriage is under turmoil?

When dissatisfaction in a relationship deemed to be present, it invites disintegration and separation. Many psychologists believe that most of the complaints from the male point of view arise from women's lack of creativity in sexual motivations.

Married man during the first year of marriage never really dreamed of having sex with other women because the whole type of marriage thing is still new. But the idea of having the same sexual partner and the same sexual behavior would soon keep the man unsatisfied if you do not mix it up a little.

When a man enjoys the company of other woman, it does not mean that they no longer love their wives. In fact, man says that even if they think they cannot live without their wives, they still have the urge to have coitus with other women.

There is of course some point where a man thinks and believes that his wife is the best women in the whole world, sexually. However, they just cannot control the desire to have sexual intercourse with the other woman. Everyone will have these urges, but it is up to the man to make sure they control them and really sit down and realize that they made a promise to their woman.

Any man not being caught of this betrayal would seem to enjoy the satisfaction he is receiving from someone else until such time when he could no longer hide for a woman's' instinct is almost if not always right. The marriage life might come to end, or they would choose to communicate. It is how they communicate and face this phase in their lives, which will determine the marriage strength.

Communication is always the key to any obstacles about sexual contentment. Finding the right word to say, finding the courage to ask, and finding the answer to your queries. All these can all be solved by communication. Why not start the day with a big grin and thoughtful words to spice your married life up?




About the Author:



No comments: