4/16/11

How Do You Catch a Cheating Spouse?

By Moglori Sparia


You know that if your spouse is cheating on you, it's important to catch them before it gets way out of hand. What's the best way to do this though? You probably shouldn't confront them outright because they are going to want proof and you probably can't give this to them. It turns into your word against theirs and you end up looking stupid and paranoid. Here are some things to look out for to catch a cheating spouse.

You should really try to catch the cheater at it instead. There are a number of ways you can do this but some will obviously work better than others. One of them is to come home early, when they least expect it. People start to get lazy in their affairs and will usually bring the person they are cheating with home. This can be the perfect opportunity to catch your cheating spouse red-handed.

At the same time, catching a cheater in the act may be difficult on a personal level. It can be embarrassing and rather uncomfortable. You can still find other ways to catch a cheating spouse without walking in on them.

But do not give up, go with the flow. Empty their pockets and handbags. Pay attention to small things like stains on clothes, bills, hair of opposite sex in the car and like. Have they bought expensive things off late and not told you? These are all signs to catch a cheating spouse!

If they travel a lot, find out more details of their business conference. Where did they stay, with whom did they go and so on. Watch their credit card charges and bank finances. Sometimes at the hotel, they may start ordering something new. Just observe closely.

Try to catch your spouse with sudden changes of plans. Look to see how well they can rearrange their schedule to match yours. Be careful though, because if they aren't cheating on you and you suddenly start acting strangely, they may begin to suspect that you are the one cheating! So watch how you try to catch a cheating spouse!




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