6/9/11

How do I Make My Ex Want Me Back?

By T Dub Jackson


My partner just broke up with me. I feel so down and my heart is aching excruciatingly. While I am experiencing the pains, there's a voice inside my mind telling me that my ex still loves me, and everything that happened was caused by a big misunderstanding. The thing which I need to know right now is how to make my ex long for me to be back into his arms.

It isn't easy being the one on the receiving end of an unexpected and, decidedly, unwanted break up. Your mind is filled with all kinds of unexpected feelings and you really have no idea what your next move should be. Right now, the best thing for you to do is to retreat from this battle and live to fight another day.

Retreat and Recover

This doesn't mean that you are giving up on your love and your relationship. It doesn't mean anything more than just a retreat. This only means that you have to miss those provoking situations that can lead you to do or say things that you are not supposed to do or say. This is the best way that you can free yourself from more pains for your hurt ego.

Save your battle for another day. This means that you have to take some time and give yourself a space or a breathing room for you to figure out things that went wrong in your relationship. Do not let your breakup stop you from moving in a sane pace when it comes to getting back your ex. Think a lot of things through so you will not regret in the end. By taking a little more time, you are helping yourself to recover just in the right time and you can be successful in getting your ex back and saving your relationship.

Form A Strategy To Win In Your Battle

You may have to reconsider the old saying that "love is war' because there might be a little truth to it. To be able to defeat your enemies, you have to form some strategies or tactics before going to the battlefield. You have then to avoid any mistakes in carrying out these strategies. Always free your heart from so many emotions so it won't affect your decisions and judgments in your attempt to get your ex back.

Make sure that in your efforts to win the battle, you don't lose the war for the heart of your ex. People say and do things when they are hurting that they would never ever say or do under ordinary circumstances. It happens all the time. Taking a step back from the raw emotions of the situation will give you an edge that will allow you to really think about your words before putting them into action and will help you put your strategy into play to ensure your victory.




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