Blame it to human nature about extreme emotions. By loving someone so much, we have the capability to hurt them the most as well. But even after every hurt and mistake after mistake, with the love that each has for the other; everything can be forgiven and forgotten. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, this is the magic of relationships and love.
Everyone has their own boiling point and once you've reached that maximum and get that person fed up, even how much they love you, asking forgiveness from them wouldn't be a piece of cake anymore. It's not easy getting their forgiveness but it still is possible you know. Here are some things that you might want to consider doing:
1) Offer forgiveness. This is something done in your own heart. You need no fanfare or flowery declarations. You just need to forgive the other person for whatever he or she has done to you. Start small and forgive little things before moving on to the bigger things. The more you forgive the easier it will become to offer forgiveness to others and accept it when it's offered to you.
2) Apologize and request forgiveness. Forgiveness isn't an easy feat to everybody. Sometimes, the damage already made its way to the core that people find it hard to forgive because the pain lingers. By requesting forgiveness, you are also acknowledging the fact that you made a mistake and you're repentant about it. Once forgiven, be very careful of not doing it again because you might not receive it the very next time you make a booboo.
3) Make it up to your partner. Approach your partner and let her know how terribly sorry you are and make it up to her. You might not be able to turn back time and take back everything you did but at least, they know you're repentant about it. That means something, right?
4) Work for a second chance. If what you're trying to do aside from making up to your mistakes is get your ex back, then brace yourself because you're seriously gonna go on a serious battle. You have to make sure nothing can take you down on this one or you'll end up with "mission failed" stamped on your forehead.
5) Be as charming and flattering as possible. You've won your ex over once before already. You know the major steps involved in the process. Most of them involved you either being incredibly charming, indescribably flattering, or some combination of the two. Use these well for they do have a lot of power.
Everyone has their own boiling point and once you've reached that maximum and get that person fed up, even how much they love you, asking forgiveness from them wouldn't be a piece of cake anymore. It's not easy getting their forgiveness but it still is possible you know. Here are some things that you might want to consider doing:
1) Offer forgiveness. This is something done in your own heart. You need no fanfare or flowery declarations. You just need to forgive the other person for whatever he or she has done to you. Start small and forgive little things before moving on to the bigger things. The more you forgive the easier it will become to offer forgiveness to others and accept it when it's offered to you.
2) Apologize and request forgiveness. Forgiveness isn't an easy feat to everybody. Sometimes, the damage already made its way to the core that people find it hard to forgive because the pain lingers. By requesting forgiveness, you are also acknowledging the fact that you made a mistake and you're repentant about it. Once forgiven, be very careful of not doing it again because you might not receive it the very next time you make a booboo.
3) Make it up to your partner. Approach your partner and let her know how terribly sorry you are and make it up to her. You might not be able to turn back time and take back everything you did but at least, they know you're repentant about it. That means something, right?
4) Work for a second chance. If what you're trying to do aside from making up to your mistakes is get your ex back, then brace yourself because you're seriously gonna go on a serious battle. You have to make sure nothing can take you down on this one or you'll end up with "mission failed" stamped on your forehead.
5) Be as charming and flattering as possible. You've won your ex over once before already. You know the major steps involved in the process. Most of them involved you either being incredibly charming, indescribably flattering, or some combination of the two. Use these well for they do have a lot of power.
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