Learning the art of putting a girl at ease is a key component in moving toward a deeper and more meaningful connection. Now, whether this leads to a romantic, or even intimate, relationship is up to you, but this is often the first step towards letting her relax and giving her a reason to want to learn more about you. Impressing a girl has very little to do with building yourself up into something you're not or parading your assets around. It's more so about letting her know that you realize what matters: respect, confidence and good grooming.
Foremost, forget the myth of the "bad boy." In real life, no woman enjoys spending time with a man who is uncommunicative or unreliable. Respect shows itself in small but significant ways. If you say 8pm, get there at 8pm. If you say you'll call, call. Another of the easiest and most effective ways to show respect is to actually listen to her. People love talking about themselves, and bringing her almond fudge, because she mentioned that she liked it three weeks ago, will put you way ahead of the pack.
If you've ever heard the phrase "self deprecating humor," you know that some people consider it humble to put themselves down. But be aware that there is an extremely fine line between healthy humility and a shaky self image. As old fashioned as it sounds, women like to know they're in good hands, so carry yourself with certainty, mention your accomplishments quietly and briefly, and leave it at that. Phrases like "I'm such an idiot!" may sound cute at first, but hearing it too many times may lead to her to think twice.
How you look is also essential. You may consider yourself a casual and relaxed type of guy, but putting a little extra effort into your appearance is a subtle but effective way to let her know that she's not just another acquaintance. You care enough to look good around her. Take a look at yourself in the mirror? Would a girl really want to be hanging on your arm when she runs into friends downtown? You don't have to overdo it, but be the guy that a girl would be proud to show off to her BFFs. If you have any doubts about what that means, keep it simple. Clothes that fit- not baggy or skin tight; well groomed facial hair; fresh breath and a well kept haircut.
Put a little effort in these areas and, in no time, you'll have the ladies all over you!
Foremost, forget the myth of the "bad boy." In real life, no woman enjoys spending time with a man who is uncommunicative or unreliable. Respect shows itself in small but significant ways. If you say 8pm, get there at 8pm. If you say you'll call, call. Another of the easiest and most effective ways to show respect is to actually listen to her. People love talking about themselves, and bringing her almond fudge, because she mentioned that she liked it three weeks ago, will put you way ahead of the pack.
If you've ever heard the phrase "self deprecating humor," you know that some people consider it humble to put themselves down. But be aware that there is an extremely fine line between healthy humility and a shaky self image. As old fashioned as it sounds, women like to know they're in good hands, so carry yourself with certainty, mention your accomplishments quietly and briefly, and leave it at that. Phrases like "I'm such an idiot!" may sound cute at first, but hearing it too many times may lead to her to think twice.
How you look is also essential. You may consider yourself a casual and relaxed type of guy, but putting a little extra effort into your appearance is a subtle but effective way to let her know that she's not just another acquaintance. You care enough to look good around her. Take a look at yourself in the mirror? Would a girl really want to be hanging on your arm when she runs into friends downtown? You don't have to overdo it, but be the guy that a girl would be proud to show off to her BFFs. If you have any doubts about what that means, keep it simple. Clothes that fit- not baggy or skin tight; well groomed facial hair; fresh breath and a well kept haircut.
Put a little effort in these areas and, in no time, you'll have the ladies all over you!
About the Author:
As an author and consultant, Mark Dwayne writes and instructs on a variety of dating topics at http://HowToImpressWomen.net. Learn how to impress a girl today!
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