6/4/11

Is It Too Late For Me To Mend Our Dysfunctional Marriage?

By T Dub Jackson


My marriage has been on a rocky path for a long time. It's only recently that I've realized just how rocky things are. My wife is completely unhappy with the way things have been in our marriage for a long time. I believe she's looking for a way out. I want to give her a reason to stay. Is it too late for a second chance with my wife or should I give up on our marriage now?

As long as you're still married, you didn't wait too long for a second chance with your wife. You may have a long road to recovery ahead of you but it's definitely not the end of the road.

If you want to make things better at home though there are actions you can take right now that will make your wife take notice of the changes you're making for her sake. When she sees these things and realizes that they are consistent changes you're making and that you're not just making empty promises the odds are good that she's going to begin a much need thaw as far as you are concerned.

It always takes two to tango. The survivor of your marriage doesn't lie on your shoulder alone. Both of you have the power to make or break your marriage. If you happen to start doing something now that can change the rocky course of your marriage, you can expect for a favorable result in the near future.

You can always resort to a few proven to be effective things to make your marriage work this time. Consider the following:

Have A Positive Outlook In Life

What you think, you attract. What you resist persist. That's the secret! If you think about positive things, you can attract more people around you including your wife. There's this book-turned-movie called "The Secret" and it tells so many facts about how positive thinking changes the personal life of every person including marriage.

This move is quite difficult to take but you'll see the changes that it can bring in your marriage if you happen to adopt it.

Make a Point of Showing Your Appreciation to Your Wife

You do not have to go deep into debt to make your wife feel treasured and appreciated by you. Failing to let her know just how much you appreciate the little things she does for you each and every day can spell disaster for your marriage.

Obviously, you don't want to disappoint your wife in any way by making her feel taken for granted by you. That's the last thing on your mind right now. Saying thank you and giving gifts that come on small packages can make wonders in making your wife feel appreciated.




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