6/7/11

Know What To Write On Pet Loss Sympathy Cards

By Bethany Reeves


Owners who lose their beloved pets can feel as though they've lost a family member. Pet loss sympathy cards allow friends to reach out to someone who has lost their pet. Senders may choose a card with a pre-written message inside. Adding a written note, however, can give the card a more personal, caring touch.

Any written message should extend heartfelt condolences. Friends will often write down good memories of the deceased pet so that owners can reminisce. Friends may also consider adding a donation to a local animal shelter or to a charity. Grieving owners will have a tangible way of knowing that their pet was appreciated by others.

Messages should acknowledge a grieving owner's feelings. Senders should be careful not to write a message that makes others feel as though they must 'hurry up and get over it'. Senders may not completely sympathize with grief for a pet, but they shouldn't minimize another's loss. Friends who do understand may share their own experiences, but they should keep the note focused on the pet owner.

One good idea for a message is to offer to listen. Pet owners need the chance to tell their story and to share old memories. Sometimes, nothing a friend can say will make the pet owner feel better. The owner may be quiet, but that doesn't mean that friends aren't needed. It is important to simply be available for a friend, even if the conversation is limited.

Good messages extend an offer of help. Grieving pet owners may not think they need help, or they may not know how to ask for help. Inside the card, friends may write an offer to cook dinner or to clean house for the owner. Friends may also offer to go with them to pick up the pet's remains. In addition, friends may offer to assist with burial or with the scattering of ashes.

A card may be obtained from a variety of sources. Friends may purchase physical cards, or they may send an e-card. Many printable cards are available online, with messages that are ready-made. Additional ideas for written condolences can be found on some web pages. If friends can't come up with their own ideas, they can simply copy these.

It's often tough to know what to say to someone who is grieving. Pre-made messages inside of pet loss sympathy cards can express sentiments pretty well. Adding a written message, though, even if it is a simple one, adds a heartfelt touch to any condolence card.

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